A little advice please?
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The kid is not the only one who has to live with the name you choose. You will have to be faced with hearing and saying the name every day. several times a day, even if you gotta yell it. Do what is most comfortable, nameing him after daddy isnt so bad.. we thought we were going to have a boy, and since my husband is named after his father, and his father named for his father, and so on i think... we were going to name him after his father... thankfully it turns out it will be a girl, which solves our problem but not yours... but. really, do whats comfortable. If you dont like having your husband and son named the same, then dont! Get a baby name book, and look it over for the next few weeks, dont share names... get a list together at the end of a few weeks and pick middle names with the last name, and go from there. YOU will be the one stuck with it, so do what YOU want, daddy will get over it. If you need an excuse to not name him after daddy just say you dont want to scream your sons name durning sex... he'll understand. Good luck and hope it works out. Congrats!!
Name him Poindexter
I think you first need to try to figure out your "unknown reason". You can't just say "I don't know why- I just don't". That will crush him.
id just tell him youre not feeling it anymore and get out the baby book to look for other names.im not feeling it either..sorry goodluck to you
name the stupid one oprah wined-freak
Yes tell him. You don't want to have four kids named torry do you?
If you aren't mature enough to discuss this with your baby's daddy are you sure you are ready to be a parent?
Be an adult and discuss it with him.
While he is sleeping, take superglue and glue his penis to his leg. The pain he will experience and the knowledge that it can happen again at anytime should bring him around. He will probably agree to Sue after the 3rd or 4th time.
Id sit him down, talk to him and tlel him that you would like to reconsider the name of your child.
Could it be that now after all the work you are going through to carry the baby, the name appeals less to you? Or as you are getting a feel for the child, the name seems wrong?
I personally think it is silly to name kids (particularly all of them) after the father or mother. I mean, I can understand wanting to honor your parents or grandparents with the name you choose, but it seems a bit egotistical to name them for either parent. Of course, I don't know you or your fiance', that is just my opinion.
The name of your child is something that you are going to have live with for the rest of your life. I would speak now or forever hold my peace - or come up with a nickname that I would call him no matter what his name on paper is.
Peace!
Maybe you can compromise and have Torry as the middle name. Or do like my husband and I did, my name is Elizabeth and I wanted to be able to call my daughter Libby which is also a nickname for Elizabeth but i didn't want to name her after me or just Libby so we came up with Liberty. maybe you can find a name that you both like with Torry being a nickname. Good luck! Happy naming!
as a mother you have a right to dissagree with your childs namea
women usually have the last say anyway.
well, most people change the names a lot before the baby's born. if youre fiance loves you, he shouldnt care if you want to change the name. but he should help find a new one...
does this make sense? sorry if im unclear
suggest it as a middle name?
Torry is like Tory which a name for a member of the conservative party in England.
Just discuss it with him, you are allowed to change your mind ;-)
Hello maybe you can settle for using it as a middle name and think of other names to use in its place
You could always call him my his middle name (the name you like) and still make his first name what his grandpa wants. :/
Or just tell your fiance how you feel?
tell your husband you will settle for the middle name to be torry. if you dont want to hurt his feelings just avoid the whole thing by just naming the baby after him! it aint a bad name. you always have the next baby boy to name whatever. . . . . hope that helps!
Is he a fan of George Foreman? Sorry, that's a question upon a question.
I don't know if I'd go for that if I were you. Do you know why he wants all his sons named after him? Did you know that George Foreman named all 5 of his sons George Edward and 2 of his 5 daughters are named George?
You might want to nip it in the bud before the GEF syndrome sets in.
If he's white then name the boy Torry. You know how fathers get. They love love there little boys. BE NICE GIVE THE MAN WHAT HE WANTS :)
I'm with you on this one. Why repeat a name? Why shouldn't your son be an individual, with his very own name? It'll only get confusing when you call Torry and both of them turn around. Tell your fiance that as much as you love his name, you want him to keep it because the only person you want to think about when you say Torry, is him. Tell him, you want to come up with an original name that you both came up with together. A name you both created, a name you'll both love. :) Hope this helped.
I suggest you discuss with him. [Couples should share things all the time. It's good to discuss things with your spouses/or lover.Especially when it comes something as important as your child's name.
He wants all his boys to be names Torry?? Is there an ego issue going on here that you need to address? Bottom line.this is your child...both his and yours ...you both need to find a name that pleases BOTH of you. If you do decide to name this one Torry...after his dad, then be very upfront that he only gets one namesake...Torry Jr's brothers should have their own name. I am curios.does Torry (your fiance) have any other sons from previos relationships? If so...if any of them are named Torry..then noooooooooooo noooooooooooo noooooooooooo! Your son deserves his very own identity. Good Luck.
I would talk to him about it. Offer to give the boy Torry as his middle name and come up with some first names you like better. It should be a mutual decision - after all it is your baby too. Personally I don't like giving kids the same name as their parent (dad). My husband's half-brother was a named after his father and he actually stole his dad's identity, about $5000 from his bank account, screwed up his credit, and ended up in prison later when his father turned him in. I think kids should be able to have their own identity - after all they aren't a little mini-me. I am sure you have your own personal reasons to change the name, and you should definitely talk to him about it!
You need to sit down and tell him how you feel my fiance wanted to name our son tashawn but i didnt like it i wanted some thing different so i told him how i felt and because i was pregnant shed a few tear till we agreed on a name
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