So i just told my mom and sister im pregnant..?

I had made my birthday and christmas list out and added a few extra things liek baby stroller, baby clothes and thought it would be a nice surprise. My sister got all upset and wouldnt talk to me and it made me upset. My mom started talking to me and i said i didnt want to talk. Is it wrong for me not to want to talk to them right now? My boyfriend keeps saying well call them. Im just not ready yet, im afraid ill get too upset again.

Answer:
i'm so sorry your sister is acting like that. you might be alittle sensitive because pregnancy hormones mess with your emotions. it ok to be upset when something like this happens. talk to your mom,let your sister calm down.
I think you guys should talk eventually, because this baby's going to affect the whole family. Before you talk to them again, play out a convorsation to yourself, and prepare what you're going to say before you call them. Talk slowly, and think about things before you say them.
SO IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR LIVING ON YOUR OWN. IT WOULD OF BEEN NICE TO LET THEM KNOW BEFORE, BUT THAT'S IN THE PAST NOW. YOU COULD WRITE TO THEM AND TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL AND THAT YOU THOUGHT IT'D BE A NICE SURPRISE, SORRY IT DIDN'T WORK OUT. WISHING YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND THE BEST.
If you're afraid that calling them will make you upset you can e-mail them and explain how their reactions make you feel. Good luck.
Why wouldn't you talk to them? First off, it doesn't make sense to put baby stuff on you Christmas list because that is why people throw Baby Showers right before the baby is born. And I don't see where your sister mad you mad makes you think that you SHOULDN'T talk to your mom. She is YOUR mom. What if your baby did that same thing to you? Now that you are going to be a mom, you are going to have to understand that people are going to say stuff to hurt your feelings (even if it is about Christmas/Baby stuff) but you don't get mad and ignore them. Get over it and call them.
First of all how old are you, and were you planning to have a child or get married? I would try to talk to my mom about if she thinks you are ready to have a baby and if you are young but you think you could handle a baby but aren't sure then ask her for some help taking care of the baby.
Give them time to adjust. Since you said boyfriend, they are may be upset that you arent married. Or b/c of your age (if you are really young). Some of the upset may be worry. Just give them a bit of time to accept this. Good luck to you!!
Give your family a few days and they will want to talk about the baby. Your mom will eventually be happy about the baby she's probably just in shock right now. Baby's are wonderful to have but they are a lot of responsibility. You may want to go to a parenting class. This baby will change your whole life. You will wonder what you ever did without him/her. They are so wonderful and you are there to protect, love, and cherish them. congratulations!

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