I need help with child custody!?
Answer:
1st Child Support - no, you don't have a say in what you have to pay. Basically, they take your income and figure it with their charts.
Jobs - it doesn't do any good to hide the fact that you have other jobs. Despite the fact that she told them, it doesn't matter. Each company is required to report employees to NewHire for this reason. The court would've found out eventually and that could (and probably would) result in you have to pay back support. Best to get it out of the now.
If the child is definitely yours, then your only option to get out of support is to sign away your rights. However, it sounds like you really want to be apart of this childs life. You just need to decide what's more important. As far as supervised visitation, try explaining to the judge that you were just upset and apologize. You may have to go through some supervised visits or talk to someone first to prove that you don't have an anger problem. You also need to realize that NONE of this is easy on her. In addition to trying to do the right thing for the child, it doesn't sound like you've been a very easy person to get along with so she's probably lashing out a bit (not right, but it's human reaction). Sit down and talk about things. Maybe you can reach a decision about visitation.
In the meantime, figure out what it is you want and stay calm. I realize it's frustrating - my ex-husband wasn't too thrilled for me when I took him to court for child support either.
My grandfather is a lawyer of 40 years and you sir screwed yourself. She will most likley get everything she wants and maybe more. Just because you dont like something dosent mean you dont have to act like an adult. You didnt have a problem having sex and so im assuming you knew that there is ALWAYS a chance to get pregnant when you have sex. This child did nothing wrong but I wouldnt let you see the kid either since it seems as though you dont even care its just all about the money. Good Luck but from my experiences you dont have a fighting chance.
You really are an idiot.
You know what you really should have thought about all of this before you had sex. You made your bed lie in it. Even if you don't want anything to do with the child the next decent thing you can do is pay child support hell it's just money you can't take it with you when you die. Second off get yourself fixed cause if you don't want to support this one you damn sure don't need another one. And for future advice never lie to a judge they hate it.
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