When did you have your first child? Was it an 'accident' or planned?
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i had my first child at 21...(now 22), and it wasnt planned. we talkied about it but wanted to wait untill i got a career. i was on the contraceptive pill and it failed. honestly wouldnt change it for the world. life has changed dramatacally for both of us. me and my partener used togo out every night almost (lol) now its hardly ever., but when we go out we party like mad. thanx for the question
i fell pregnant at 17 and had my son at 18, obviously he wasnt planned but I love him
I had my 1st at 22, it was planned. My hubby and I began to try shortly after our honeymoon, we concieved the 1st or 2nd week we were in our 1st home.
Planned.
i was 18. she was the result of a rape. something good had to come out of something so bad. she's 19 now and i couldnt have asked for a more wonderful person in my life. my first planned child was at 24.
My wife & I had our first child 11 months ago. We didn't plan on getting pregnant, but I would never say he was an accident. We love him dearly and are looking forward to so many new experiences with him. His 1st birthday is in 28 days.
Now we're planning on getting pregnant again next year so he can have someone his size to play with and learn from.
My son was planned. I was 21 when i got pregnant and had him. It took me a year to become pregnant. Me and his father have been together since we were 15 and now we are 27. He was a planned baby though and we are thinking about planning another one here soon.
I WAS 28. SHE JUST HAPPENED! NO ACCIDENTS HERE!!
I was my momma's first baby, and I just found out a few months ago that I was a surprise, and my little brother was planned. I also didn't know that my parents had no idea what I was until I was born because she didn't have an ultrasound - and that was in the mid 80's.
my first child was an accident. when mi n my bf found out tat i was pregnant he doesn't want to kep the baby. he ask mi to abort away but i dun. i tell him i haf decided to keep it n if u dun want i won't use the baby to tie u down. u can go if u waant. n true enough he went of wif another gal not long after. when he left mi i was feeling so depressed tat i continue go drinking every nitz despite 7th mth in my pregnancy. i went to the doc after sencing tat something is not quite right n i was right. the doc say i had a still birth n i break down n really cry my heart n i regret. y did i still go drinking n smoke when i prenant? i didn't spare a thought for the baby tat in mi. i can only live in regret for the rest of my mind. i juz want advise those who really want to keep the baby no matter wat happen dun do anything stupid. dun live ur life wif regret lyk wat i feeling nw.
I got my child when I was 29 years. I got married at 28 years so I didnot want to delay too much so conceived after 4 months of my marriage but it was not planned
I had my son at 17 no he wasnt planned neither were my other 2 daughters lol. but they are my life.
I was 30, married for two years. He was a blessing.
i had my first child at 12 years old. but i had planned since i was in secound grade.so it was not a suprise to my parents when i told thim.
im pregnant rite now and me and my fiance have been together 5 nonstop years and we've planned it! were 20 and my babys due a month before my 21st b-day but ya know what i dont drink so its not a issue for me! but me and my fiance have been trying for over a year to get pregnant!
No children yet. I'm 26 and TTC still since December '05.
I got pregnant with my first child at 18, And had him @ 19...He wasn't planned, But he wasn't an accident either. :-)
2nd child @ 25, Had him when I was 26, Again, He wasn't planned but was not an accident.
And, This time, I was 26 when I got pregnant and will be 27 when she's born, Unplanned! :-)
I will be having my first in about 4 months, I'll be 22. She wasn't planned... wasn't planning on trying to concieve for another 6 months or so, but I am extremely happy non the less. She wasn't really an accident though. She just arrived a little sooner than expected. :) Hopefully the next one won't come as quite a shock :P
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