Is it wrong to get preg when you want it but don't want the father to know?
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Yes its weird and morally and ethically WRONG! How in the world can you think this is ok or acceptable? Were you brought up this way?
You don't want to do that. It's not right. I mean if you accidently end up pregnant thats a somewhat different thing. BUT TO GET PREGNANT ON PURPOSE. GEEZ.
Heck if nothing else. ask him if he is ok with it. Tell him you just need a sperm donor. lol
a few things to say, one. are u financially stable to take care of a child? two. are u going to make sure this man doesnt have stds or anything before u have sex? three. do u really give a care what society thinks? if one and two are good, then u shouldnt care. have a kid lol if not with him, go to a sperm bank and get it done there. (artificial thing)
Yes, weird, wrong and selfish
yes its disgusting
Lisa, if you are not financially able to ready to get pregnant, then DONT do it. Not to mention that your child will grow up and want to know who there father is at some point. It's not fair to the child or the father to not tell them. I think what you are thinking of doing is WRONG!! Don't do it!!
That is just wrong in tooo many ways. So unffair to the guy. Why would you want to get pregnant alone anyways. I hope you have a lot of money and family that will support you. You are crazy. PLUS that child will never know his/her father. COMPLETELY selfish and wrong. You are a dumb ***** and you do not deserve a child. I will go to bed tonight and pray to god to never send you a precious baby until he thinks you are mature and unselfish enough to deserve one.
Yes and it's stupid. You have no right to make that kind of decision without talking to him about it and being honest with him first. It's childish, selfish and immature and you shouldn't be having children if this is the way that you think.
I dont think its weird, plus mixed-babies are the most beautiful of all! Now and days its very acceptable to be mixed, since most people are. Your baby might one-day wonder about his/her dad, which is something you should take into consideration. You might also evaluate your finances to make sure you are able to support your baby without anyone's assistance... also you might want to let the possible father know, because he does have the right to know~~~~~
It is not only weird it is selfish. You want to a child and then deny that child a father. Do you cherish the sympathy some people have for single mothers? You would also be denying a man the right to enjoy his son or daughter. In addition you are planning to be devious in your method. I don't think that you are mature enough or intelligent enough to have children. People like you should be sterilized.
My dear. Could you really afford to have a baby at this stage of your life? I don't think it's good idea. Your baby will grow up not knowing his/her father. You will be a single parent...U need to consider these things.
It's wrong to get pregnant without discussing it with the father. If he is a smart man, he will make sure he is protected and it won't happen. But if you tell him you're on birth control or poke holes in the condoms, that's really dishonest and sneaky.
If you have a baby with someone, it's just about impossible to have nothing do do with him ever again. He will have rights as the baby's father, and he can go to court to claim those rights. Besides, if you ever need public assistance, they will go after him for child support whether you want them to or not. You will be forming a connection with this man that will last the next 18 years at least.
First thing that comes to my mind is , "why do you want to have a baby?"
Most young girls say (and I assume you are young,..less than 22?) because they are mature, they know how to care for a baby etc.
The main reason is becuase they are not getting something emotional from their family and a baby seems to fill that gap, but in reality, only on the surface it does.
Look at how you get along w/ your family... try to find out what is missing from your relationship w/ them. Then try to see if that is why you want to have a baby.
However to truely answer your question...I dont' know if it's illegal or anything, but I'd say it's extrememly selfish, denying the child a father. (and race has absolutley nothing to do with this...if you think race has something to do with it, then it's how you were taught)
It is not only weard it is wrong it is called deception! think about the child it will grow up with no father not to say he would want to be a part of the childs life BUT WHAT IF HE DID? If tou want to get pregnet that bad dont take advantage of someone like that.
whats weird is your blatant disregard to another human. or two if you do conceive.
the dad has a right to know. its so wrong of you to just use him like that.
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