Is there any legit purpose for a girl in a relationship to carry a condom when she goes out?
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**** happens, esspecially when you're drinking. Just be glad if she were to **** up and not tell you, you wouldn't have to worry about herpes or hiv. I would only be concerned if the condoms started getting "lost". If you were married and she went out and took condoms, I'd be a little more concerned. She is in college, and all her other friends do it. You have to have trust, or you have nothing. If she isn't trustworthy, find someone who is. Don't be overly trusting. I know it sounds crazy and immature but have you ever thought of having a friend she hasn't ever met go to the same club as her and keep an eye on what she is doing. Or, you could call cheaters the tv show. That is kind of immature, and I can't even believe I said it, but honestly it's what I'd do.
No, if she is in a relationship and doesn't intend on cheating then there is no reason. And if i were her man I would be upset.
Even if she don't plan on using it, would there be a chance...it just doens't make sense.
In case she has sex with someone else..Wake up
A girl who is sexually active whether in a relationship or not is just as responsible for birth control measures as the guy. maybe she is carrying it in case one of her single friends gets lucky and forgot theirs.
In case of sex, for a condom serves no other purpose
Here is the legit reason. She is looking for some strange. You should go do the same unless you are married there is nothing stopping you. Have fun while you are young and able.
So, you would always be as pure as the driven snow, yes?
In case of . . . (you can figure it out). Maybe we could say that she carries a condom in case she gets drunk and gets into something she didn't intend. Fidelity is a conscious act, a choice we make every day in our relationships. It is possible that your girl wants to be faithful but doesn't really trust herself, so she carries a condom to avoid the consequences of stupidity.
And the other possibility is the obvious one. She wants to keep her options open. I realize this is not what you wanted to hear, but I don't see any way around it.
BTW, if she takes more than one condom with her, she is pretty clearly planning something rather than preparing for accidents.
Good luck!!
sensible girl
in case she has drunken sex. you should be glad she is doing it so you dont get a disease.
Just in case:
Just in case her friend needs one. Just in case anyone needs one. Just in case she needs one. At least if she cheats on you she isn't going to bring home AIDS too.
Women and men should absolutely carry a condom around with them if they are going to hang out on the party scene. Never know when someone may need it. (And I'm not slagging the party scene, I just don't think anyone on the Subway or at the grocery store is going to ask me for a condom)
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there may be that temptation i guess.
oh yes there is. If you care about your self, don't care who you are, you'll protect your self, or make sure the protection is there just on the incase. you never know.
I think lots of guys have a condom in their wallet right now and some of you are in a relationship too. Some things become habit and taking a condom with you when you go "out" is a good one to have. Even if you dont need one a friend might.
If this so called girlfriend is really serious about your relation ship with you then there is no reason for her to carry a condom.Words of advice dump her.
Okay, just giving her the benefit of the doubt ---
Maybe it's a RULE they all follow, no exceptions, even if one of them has a boyfriend. Then she's just being supportive of her friends, and honoring the RULE.
OR maybe she keeps it to give it to a friend if they need it.
Those are the only 2 legit reasons I can think of.
This definitely calls for further discussion, and if you are in a relationship she owes you the truth.
Ask her how SHE would like it if you brought a condom along when you go out with the guys 'just in case'??? If you have decided to be exclusive to each other, there should be no 'just in case.'
Sherry
Very legit-Any girl in any relationship other than a monogamous marriage should carry and use a condom. It's not all about birth control. A bigger concern is STDs. While I understand it's tough to think that the one we care about might have sex with someone other than us, count your blessings she's at least minimizing the risk of infecting you with something. She may break your heart, but there's a cure for that. I think when you add together a girl who still needs to go out dancing and to bars with the girls (what's wrong with dinner and a movie) and feels there might be a "just in case" opportunity, you should be looking for someone else. Next weekend, make a point of letting her know you need to stop off at store to buy some condoms before you go out with the guys--I'd be curious to see how she responds.
You never know whats going to happen after a full night of drinking. Its the most responsible thing for her to do to carry a condom. Becuz if she does cheat on you atleast she won't get pregnant or an STD. Also what if her friend needs a second one? You never know when you miht need a condom its best to always have one handy. I'm 33 weeks pregnant and I don't have sex but I always carry a condom cuzI never know wen a friend might need it or just some random person.
because she can do what ever she wants to.
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