Surragacy?
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Ya know..you can have a baby and still look great! In fact, a lot of women say that they actually look and feel sexier after having had a baby. Your boobs gets bigger and your curves become more "Womanly". But you have to take good care of yourself, continue to exercise and eat healthy.
I don't think that it necessarily makes you a bad person, but it is a little selfish. The true feeling of wanting a child should include the joys of actually bringing it into this world.if you are able to have a baby..you should take advantage of it! There are a lot of woman out there who would do anything to have the childbearing experience and they can't.
Childbirth is a beautiful thing...If I were you I would really think harder about it.
If you are that worried about your body and that self-centered, then you definitely are not ready for a child.
surragacy is very expensive and there is always the possiblity that the birth mother could become attatched to ur baby or not b healthy why she is carrying it. carry ur own child but exercise and eat right and u wont' notice u've had a kid physically. those flabby belly's and over weight women let themselves go (not that there is anything wrong with it, their just not obsessed).
yes because u can always get ur figure back after giving birth invest in a personal trainer they are cheaper than paying and maintaing a surrogate during pregnancy but are u going to tell ur kid that he was born to surrogate jus because u didnt want to loose ur figure.
After you have a baby, you are not here for yourself anymore, your here for the baby, you have to put the babys needs before yours...
You won't be a bad person, but I think its selfish to think of your figure and how you look instead of carrying a baby, it can be a beautiful thing, and you can get your figure back!
I wouldn't say selfish. For me I think that by having my own baby, it's defanitly safer, and less emotionally exhausting waiting for someone else to become pregnant, not to mention the cost. However, if I were you I'd think about the long run when your child finds out that you didn't give birth becuase you didn't want to loose your figure. That may really upset the child, I know I'd be pretty angry if it was me.
well you might not be ready for a baby .YOU can exercise after the baby is born,being pregnant is an awesome feeling to feel a life inside of you moving around so think long and hard what you really want.
dear child, you are possibly one of the shallowest persons i have e'er seen. i say, you must have played with many cutesy baby dolls and barbie dreamhouses when you were a child..
all plastic and perfect and shiny, like some 1950s brochure.
babies vomit. they urinate and defecate on everything. they scream and cry and ooze and leak and drool and snot on your entire life. they demand all of your attention and more.
they become the shrieking little centre of your newly imprisoned universe.
if that sounds like a bad thing to you, then do not have a child.
yes, it does. you are not ready to have a child if you are worried about losing your figure. you lose way more than your figure when you have a child. in no way are you ready for a child.
I have had three kids, and I look better than most women that have never had kids. It depends on your genes, how did your mother or sisters look after having a child??
If you are concerned your figure, you should not be considering having a child. You have to give up a lot more than your figure when you have a child.
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