Im also pregnant with this mans child that has a 3 week old baby?
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What a pity for the children. You people are going to be their greatest example. How very very sad.. for your kids will grow up and be just like you.
This is the most awful story- You people know sex is for marriage right?
When will you realize the grave mistake you have made? adopt your kids out . please!!
DO YOU WANT YOUR CHILD TO BE LIKE HIM? if you do, then be together with him, this dude is a lowlife! raise the baby on your own
Tell him what you just said upfront.that you want him in your and your child's life, but you don't want any drama (by the way, he'll be able to have a part in his kid's life regardless)...let him make the decision and do the work. If he's really willing to jump through hoops as you say, you might find yourself a very happy woman. Good Luck to you and I'm proud of you for not aborting your baby -- you'll never even be able to imagine you could consider it when you're holding your baby in your arms.
Who are you, a Britney Spears wanna-be?!
Let me first say that if you do take him back..you will ALWAYS have the other woman in both of your lives! It's not only his baby with the other woman...but it's your childs sibling as well! I know it hurts to really swallow things like that sometimes..but you did lay down with him..so now you have to deal with the outcomes..either way he's still gonna be in the baby's life..he is the daddy! GOOD LUCK !!
you said it yourself " i want a man for myself and don't want to share" whats to say he is telling the mother of that other child. if he cheated on her with you who is to say he will cheat with a new baby momma? He can still care for your child and be part of your child life without you delaing with him. What does your heart tell you?
Nothing good can come about with you messing with a married man. He has no obligation to you, even though he says he will be there.
It's evident, he already left you for his wife to have a baby. If he leaves his wife, then you have a chance, but whose to say he won't cheat on you, like he did on his wife with you?
Don't be stupid. Just leave him alone, forget him! If he really wanted to be with you and if he really loved you then he wouldn't have had you "on the side". It's as simple as that. I know you will do what you want to do regardless of what I say, but since you asked I'm telling you that you deserve more than he can give you. Just stay away from him and you will find a man that loves you and only you. Don't sell you and your child short, no since in that, there's alot of men out there that I'm sure would love to have a chance to be with you and your soon to be baby. You don't/shouldn't have to be in the middle of all that drama. And just for the record he sounds like an ***! And no matter if you love him or not REMEMBER that if he really loved you he would just be with you, and he wouldnt have to lie to anyone about it.
If he is a two-timer, what makes you think he will change for you?
BE WITH HIM!
my friend was in dat exact situation
go for it girl
well if he is not with the first babys mama and never was then whats the problem?? if your telling the truth then i don't see why you guys aren't together. whatever happens between you guys don't ever keep him away from his other child thats not cool, and its not the babys fault.
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