How to tell you're parents that you're girlfriend is pregnant?
Answer:
Sit down with them and be prepared for any reaction they might have. Hopefully they are supportive but show them that you are confident that you can handle the situation. They might be disappointed at first but they will come to realize what a blessing the child will be to their life. The sooner you get out the truth, the better it will be. If you do what is best for your kids, god will take care of you.
You've only been going out for a month and she's pregnant? Are you sure she wasn't pregnant BEFORE you had sex with her?
I agree with ColleenO if you have only been going out for 1 month you would have to have had sex that 1st day or so! Also tell your parents together, no one did it alone
Son, it's time to bite the bullet and simply tell them. You obviously have decided to do the right thing and take care of your girlfriend and the baby. But honey, please, at all costs finish your education. Including sexual education. Birth control is nothing but. It's not fool proof honey - only abstinence is.
Hopefully you and your girlfriend will be able to work this out and your parents will be supportive, but don't count on them being too thrilled. Most parents I know are scared to death of this scenario for their children.
Dude...if you have only been going out for a month and she already knows she's pregnant...make her get a dna test to make sure. PLUS + I wouldn't dare say a word about the pregnancy if it is really yours until after 3 months. If she is still pregnant after 3 months it is more likely the baby will survive. Then, if it is yours, all you can tell them what your intentions are about being there for the kid. Her, well, she's another story considering you only have been dating for a month. You dont even know her.
She's pregnant, pass the turnips.
try English if that is what they speak ,and tell them to sit down and be ready for some heavy news ,there is not a way that you can avoid this .walk tall
a man gotta do what a man gotta do
and you gotta face up to the consequenses of your actions
or help your girl with her consequenses.if you love her
you could run away and imigrate .but that is nort a solution.
just sit down with them and tell them straight up... i don't know about your parents but her father will be pissed for sure and he has every right to be. good luck in raising the kid... i really hope he/she has a good upbringing be there for your child
First of all it's good to see that you have a good head on your shoulders, good for you! Now, it is very possible that you got your gf pregnant when only dating for a month, my good friend got pregnant with her daughter either the 2nd or 3rd time she slept with her bf! But it is something to keep in mind, think about when you had sex and go with her to the docs...see when they say she concieved.
Now on to your parents.it sounds like they are good parents that raised you right. They ARE going to be upset, your mom is going to cry. They are going to tell you they are disappointed, but talk to them like an ADULT not a teenager. Talk with your gf first and come up with a gameplan. It is best to know all the answers to the questions your parents will have:
What about school?
Are you going to marry her?
How are you going to afford a baby?
Where are you going to live?
How do you know the baby is yours?
Are you going to keep the baby?
Expect these questions and more...parents are good at thinking of questions...just have answers.
To tell them, you know your parents, do it in the way you will be most comfortable, I suggest sitting them down and telling them you have something very important to tell them. Then let it all out. Do it when they have nothing to do for the rest of the day and you are free as well. This is not going to be a 2 minute ordeal in most cases. Be prepared for the worst, that way you can be relieved if they react better than you expect. Good luck and i hope all goes well.
in my opinion... she's trapping you hon.
you know like the things we watch in soap operas...
please ask her the real truth.
make her swear if you really wanted to...
i think she is not havin your baby.. it's others i guess..
juz be sure ok??
condoms?? it's 99% effective..
if you had them.. i think the chances are very very very small that it's your real baby.
think bout it k?
did your condom break
anyways just be straight forward and tell your parents first
then maybe your parents can approach your girlfriend's parents with the both of u
Let's be very honest with one another. How long did you know this girl before you began dating? Was she involved with anyone else before you two started dating? You said she was on birth control, did she miss taking any?
It is very possible this is your baby because it only takes 3 days to get pregnant and for the sperm to meet the egg. A woman can start experiencing symptoms within several days of pregnancy. As far as your parents, there is no easy way to break it to them, you are now an 18 year old young gentleman with God in your life. Let your parents know that it is a possibility that the baby is yours and possibility it is not. Let your parents also speak with the young woman that is pregnant and you will also speak with her father and mother. Your parents will more than likely want to speak with the young womans parents. Whatever you do, if you find out that this is your baby, never let anyone tell you what to do with your own child, such as giving it away, abortion or anything else unless you and the mother decides that is what is best for that child. You and this new mother will be the ones who will take care of this baby for life, just like your mother raised you. Remember you are now an adult. I really do wish you the best of luck and pray that the baby is yours, you seem like you would make a responsible father.
Best wishes from Nothern Virginia Times
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