I need some wanna be pregnancy help? your advice needed?
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Everyone's cycle is different. There is a myth that woman ovulate 14 days after their period begins...but that is only an AVERAGE and each month can be different. The other thing is that sperm can live inside you for up to 5 days. so if you are having a shortened cycle one month and you have sex right after your period and you ovulate earlier than day 14 than yes, there is a chance of getting pregnant. The only way to know is to know exactly when you ovulate. There are several ways to know and some are more effective than others. Some can only predict before ovulation happens and some can only predict that is has already happened. The absolute best info I can give you is to go read a book called Taking Charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler. It will help you understand your body and all the myths about it. It will help you time when you are ovulating and the best times to conceive – or not! . It's about knowing your body and knowing when you are fertile or not.
My husband and I tried for 1 year and had no luck..… We tried ovulation predictors , laying with pillows under me for 20 min. everything……the first month that I began using the book I realized that my timing was WRONG!. We got pregnant that very first month and I am now due Feb 2, 2007. You can pick and choose what you do with your info. Good luck and don't listen the all the myths! Even if you don't get into charting and everything.it will help you in so many ways!
best time - After you are married.. own your own home.. and have about $50,000 in the bank! (ok well at least the first 2) but then DONT COMPLAIN about the cost of braces or the huge amount of work a kid is.
When I wanted to get pregnant, I immediately thought.."What time of the month should I try?" As I did more research I realized that my first question was the wrong question. It should've been, "Am I in good condition and healthy enough to get pregnant?" I found that it is very important to be extra healthy. I started taking prenatal vitamins before I even got pregnant. I found out what my ideal weight was. I was underweight so I ate more HEALTHY foods. I didn't just eat everything in front of me. I made sure everything I was eating was good for me or a baby. I also started exercising. Within two months of beginning a healthy lifestyle, I became pregnant and carried a healthy 9lb 1oz baby till full term. So I recommend that you make sure you are healthy. Women tend to just try to hit the mark every month and get lucky. But I guarantee you, if you start being super healthy your body will be prepared for a baby. Your body is smart. It will not conceive another life if it is struggling to take care of you. Even if you seem very healthy, there are always little things that you can do to make a big difference.
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