General question on how you feel towards babies.?
my first daughter-Syriana Rose
my second daughter-Genesis Christine
my first son-Jonah Dennis
my second (if i have one)-Aiden Joseph
What do you think? I want a closed or maybe semi-open adoption. Any suggestions? What were yor reasons for wanting/not wanting a baby? Kind of a long question.
Answer:
This is like so good. I am so happy for you. The names are wonderful. You should go ahead and do this gal. I am not sure when I want to have kids but one thing is certain I must have my first baby before 30. I also plan to adopt two or three although the idea does not seem to jazz my family.
I hate them as much as I hate dogs.
I was 32 when I had my first child and I am currently in the first trimester with my second child (I am now 34).
Children are a wonderful addition to a family.
I still look at my 2 year old daughter in amazement and feel blessed that she became a part of our lives.
She is not my daughter, or my husband's daughter, but more importantly she is "our" daughter - she is a bit of me, a bit of him and she was conceived out of love.
In saying that - raising a child is hard work, but it is rewarding.
My only advice to you would be before you settle down and decide to have children - travel, see the world, experience what life has to offer and when you feel that your desires have been fulfilled then by all means, start a family.
Also, focus with one child first, then as time goes on, then maybe look at a second child and so forth.
I commend that you want to adopt children and that you would love them as your own.
You just need to be financially and emotionally secure before taking on such a big commitment.
Hope this helps.
I love my babies. I wanted more, but pregnancy is very hard to go through, so after this one, I am done. I may adopt, but it would be closed
I think babies are barely persons, but persons enough that they deserve good parents. I think adopting is not as selfish as having biological children, but I won't do either because I simply do not like children and have other things to do with my life rather than spend it with a child. I find it rather mind numbing and that makes me angry. I'd probably be one of those women you hear about who put their babies in a dumpster.
I Love babies.Im not sure how old I want to be when I adopt my first.I'm planning on adopting all of my children.I hope to adopt 6 if possible.If it was up to me I'd have my mother and father adopt a dozen more.They adopted me 13 years ago from newborn and now are trying to adopt again witout an agency and can't seem to find a birthmother in west virginia where we live or ky ohio tenn.Im not really sure if id want a open or closed adoption.I want the baby I adopted to know about her mother and I want to know the mother but still don't want her to always be there confusing the baby(possibly putting the child in danger if shes into drugs and drinking) which has happened brfore, but I dont want her or them (bio dad and mom)to think I think of them as trash.
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