WHY a CHILD? - This is not a ‘Do I want’ or ‘You don’t want’ but a WHY question. (Perfect family)?
Some children here came by mistake, their parents found excuses …
Some think that they can give life to a child … but they are not able to give live even to an ant.
Some think that this is something “divine”, not to trouble about it,or really understand it.
Some failed to accomplish their goals and believe that their children must complete their tasks
Some believe that what others do is correct, so…they just execute.
Some really try to perpetuate their species(in excess)
Some people think only about their own happiness.(so sad)
Aren’t you able to give a LOGICAL answer that really makes SENSE?(exept of a PERFECT family
Answer:
here is an answer for you.Because we aren't perfect,no matter what we may think.And when we have our children,we seem to think that they are PERFECT,and we put all the pressures on them to do what we couldn't.
I'm lost. Are you asking why people have kids? If that's the question, is there really a correct answer? No, there isn't. The LOGICAL answer is that people have sex, and a child is created. They can choose to bring it into the world and care for it and raise it, or they can choose not to. THAT, my friend, is the logical answer.
Also, you call children a miracle of life, yet you seem to think no one is worthy of this miracle. I don't get how you can think that way.
I don't really get your question...but..
There is no perfect family. There is no perfect parent or no such thing as a perfect situation. We live in a fallen world and not one of us is perfect, or always makes the right decesions. Some people shouldn't have children. Some people are just plain bad. There is a lot of bad in this world, and I think that instead of complaining about it, or pointing fingers, etc. our job here is to help..make a difference in someone's life..do the best we ..get involved..help make a difference instead of just speaking out about all the wrongs. You can't help everyone, so help those you can. There is a heaven and there all things are good,,but till then...do your best to help those around you. Sorry if this wasn't what you were looking for. Best wishes
I'm a little lost on the question here too!
We had kids because we wanted too...even though I'm not married anymore, I wouldn't change have those kids for anything.I learn as much or more from them as they do from me...
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