My son has to play a girls part in his boy scout fund raiser play, How do I handle borrowing his sisters dress
She is kind of a tom boy so he has teased her when she has had to wear these dresses. I never did much to stop him because it was normal sibling stuff
She will have field day when I ask about the dresses and will want to see them modeled.
What should I do to be fair to both of them ?
Answer:
You just tell your daughter that your son has to dress-up as a girl for his boy scout fund raiser & he's going to dress-up in her clothes. Then ask if she'd like to help you, that should even things out for all the teasing his given her too.
Don't tell her you are borrowing a dress. Take which one you need. If you let the teasing go on, then she has the right to give it right back.
I hope your joking DO NOT dress you boy in a dress for a stupid play. your boy will never forgive you. It might sound like its not a big deal to you but he will get teased for along time for that. kids are cruel.
It's no fun to tease someone that isn't bothered by it. Tell him to say "Okay. Gimme your best shot." when she's sees this the first time. Tell him to laugh it off. She'll get tired of it quick if it doesn't seem to bother him.
I just looked at your question history. You're a tranny or in the very least have some weird fixation and if you get turned on thinking of little kids cross-dressing you need some help.
It is for a play for goodness sakes...When we have contests for the "Hottest" guy (I mean woman) It is very, very funny and the guys have fun with it too...Wearing the heels and make-up and balloon boobs..Don't let her rib him too much but it will be pretty funny.you have to admit it!...So just tell her that he needs a dress for a play and leave it at that...When she is finished laughing she can help him get ready.Have fun with it.Kids don't make a big deal out of things unless we as adults do it first.have fun and share a good laugh...ss
1st of all....why do you need it to be modeled for you?
You don't...he is a boy and he has to wear a dress.
Pick a dress and go with it. It's not like its going to look good
on him and its not like it NEEDS to look good on him.
Save him additional embarassment..grab a dress from
your daughters closet....NOT PINK.. and tell him
to go to the bathroom and see if it hangs below his knees
and then let it go.
If YOU don't make a big deal out of it....then it won't be a big deal. No matter what his sister is going to make fun of him
cuz that is what siblings do..usually..they make fun of each other. I can promise you..your son wont EVER make fun of his sister having to wear a dress again.
Not only will your daughter have a field day, but so will all of your son's friends. Poor kid. Don't make him wear a dress! That's just torturing him for life.
Have him ham it up as much as possible. My son went out on Halloween 2 seasons ago as a girl. He had on hiking boots and a black make-up beard. The dress was a sleeveless which was good for his for physique. It was a hit. The following Halloween several of his buddies copied his idea. Remember, when being teased-a good offense beats a good defense.
As to how to be fair with your daughter. ? If he has been mean to her, turnabout is fair play.
this is why I am glad Australian Scouts are for boys and girls. I honestly doubt you would ever get my son in a dress, especially on stage. Good luck to your son. If he has teased his sister he is about to get it all back at him. When he whinges about it, then tell him now he knows how his sister felt
After reading Sadie's answer I looked at your questions. You seriously have issues you know that. Go get some help
make your son buy his own dresses
i FIND IT HARD TO BELIEVE THAT BOY SCOUTS ARE MAKING HIM DRESS IN A GIRLS DRESS.
AS A DEN MOM I HAVE BEEN DOING SKITS FOR 4 YEARS AND IF SOMETHING APPROACHES THAT WOULD BE IMPIED A GIRLS PART WE DO OUR BEST TO NAVIGATE AROUND THAT.
IF IT WERE PERTAING TO A ROLE PLAY FOR EXAMPLE OF DO'S AND DONTS ON A DATE- THE SCOUT "PLAYING THE ROLE OF THE "GIRL" WOULD BE INSTRUCTED TO SAY " IF I WERE A GIRL AND A BOY WANTED TO KISS ME" ETC- I CANNOT BEIEVE THAT A BOYS BEEN "MADE" TO DRESS AS A GIRL. THOUGH HE MAY BE OK WITH IT-I DONT THINK PUTTING HIM IN THE WAY OR RIDICULE IS APPROIATE. AND YOUR DOUGHTER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SCOUTS SO IT'S NOT A MATTER OF INVOLVING HER.
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