Should i break it to my daughter that her boyfriend hit on me?
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yes. she should know and decide if he still is worth marrying or w.e
"Wash your hands of her?" She needs your guidance and discipline more than ever.
are you sure
Any mother that would do that, yes I think you should wash your hands of the whole thing.
wash your hands of it, dont get in the middle, only one to lose will be you, if you get into it you will probably hear about it for the rest of your life..
I'd tell her. If she doesn't believe you then at least you tried. Judging by the type of guy he sounds like he is, he'll slip up again later, and she will catch him. At least then you'll have a clear conscience.
It would be a pretty ackward situation but I would only when necessary. ON the other hand, ya tell her.what a pig of the guy, how old are you, lol.
I wouldn't do that. It will only make the situation worse. If he is a bad as you say he is, she'll see it eventually.
You shouldn't wash your hands of your daughter - EVER. Bad MOM!
But this is a touchy situation since she sounds completely infatuated with him. If he's hit on you, then you totally need to address the situation. If you have a great relationship with your daughter it shouldn't be hard to have a heart to heart with her and let her know what happened.
However, if you really want to get rid of the guy, you might be better off hiring someone to get some dirt on him. If you were to accept his flirt and get caught in the act, that would surely get rid of him, but it would drive you two apart as well. I'd hire someone to catch him in the act.
If he's hitting on you - even if you're smoking hot - it's not an isolated incident. He's probably a scum bag and he's probably screwing around on her anyway.
If all else fails - you could always take him huntin'.
I don't know how old your daughter is, but it sounds like she's young. I think we can all look back on our teen years and remember our first love we got love-stupid over. If he's a jerk, she'll realize it and will learn from it on her own. Pointing out that he's a bad guy (especially if she doesn't think so) will just make her defensive and mad at you.
If him hitting on you is a lie, it's even more of a reason NOT to tell her. What if she found out you're lying? Don't risk something that could kill the trust in a mother-daughter relationship. If it's the truth, maybe consider how serious of a 'hit-on' it was. If it was grossly sexual, then yes, you should be worried about her with him. If it was just flirty, maybe you've misconstrued his intentions.
sit down with her and have a chat. Tell her everything even what you think of him. Then let her make a choice. Just let her know you'll always be there for her and that you love her.
Your daughter's boyfriend hit on you, and you are contemplating allowing her to marry him, at 15 years-old?
You need to be the parent here! She is still under your roof, so you do have a say in what she does!
Put his as* in place and inform him if it happens again then you'll have no choice but to let your daughter know. Plan and simple!
She needs to be warned about him so tell her. If she doesn't believe you, she had fair warning. Do not let her problems be your problems.
No never turn your back on your daughter. Always support her and maybe she will see what he's really like. If you do not think she will then confront her in front of him so he can not sweet talk his way out of it...then maybe she will realize what a sleeze he is.
since you said in a previous question shes only 15 get a restraining order and keep him away from her and your house until she is 18
How is she causing you to have a breakdown? You sound like a pretty self absourbed person, pull your hease out of your butt.
Are you sure he actually hit on you? Sounds like your daughter is getting ready to wash her hands of you.
your daughter may not believe you but for her sake and your peace of mind let her know what a low life this man is,if he has done this to you how many times has he done it to other women?? let her know,yes
Definitely tell her. She has to make her own decisions though.
U shuld b honest w/yur daughter.She may hate u at 1st.But,it's in her best interest.
first off if my daughter man hit on me she would have know, I would have made him his feel real low about crossing my daughter; if he hit on you, he hit on other girls!
I would told my daughter as soon as it happened.
she don't have a clue what marriage is about, I would fight tooth and nail to make sure does mess up her life. there are some mistakes that can't be fixed!
she is going threw a fayse just like all teenage do, don't let her fuk up her life.
good luck
You have to be the parent not the friend.
tell your daughter about what he did. she is most likely going to find out eventually anyway. it is better that she knows, otherwise she is going to be really hurt that you didn't tell her. it may cause her to break up with her boyfriend but keeping this from her and letting her find out later on is going to hurt her even more. this is a tough situation for you. hope everything works out. good luck.
if he is yes definetely tell her
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