I have a friend and she is 12 yrs old and she is pregnet. what should i do?
Answer:
Just be there for her.
If she's not confiding in you, maybe she's not really pregnant and trying to trick someone?
You definately need to tell her (or your) parents if she is. If she is pregnant she needs to se a doctor right away or something could go wrong t hurt her or the baby.
. If this ruins your friendship she will either get over it or she was not the friend you thought she was.
Another way to go would be to talk to someone at your school, your counselor, teacher or the nurse. Tell them that you don't want her to know it was you who told them. They could call her parents and when they talk to her they could just say that they heard a rumor around school and by law they needed to check it out.
This could even be more serious that you think it is.
She should know how she got the baby, but if she's not telling you she could be covering up a rape or something that she doesn't know how to handle. In that case Please talk to a school official to get them involved because her parents need to know.
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well there is really only one good way to get a baby, and im sure she knows how. second, leave it alone. friends or not, youre too young its not your business, and as for advise, dont make the same mistake she made.
she got the baby by sleeping with a guy... she may be to scared to talk, so don't take it personally. She is probably scared.. it is not about you.. plus her body is going through tons of hormones, plus the stress of the situation... don't worry, don't take it personally. Just be there for when she wants to talk
Are you the friend,and you don't know how to tell your parents ?
If not she should know how she got pregnant ,if not reminder if you are a good friend ,somebody needs to know she needs prenatal vitamins .
She must go to parents and tell about the situation. As the time will pass situation become more worse. Therefore, if she talks to you or ask about it, just advise to tell to parents and not to hide.
Can you get her to a planned parenthood? She need counseling immediately!
hey...it's a little bit harder in this situation.i don't know what to say..:-s..she's only 12 and it's very hard 4 a 12 yers girl 2 have a baby.she need to say that 2 her parents..and 2 keep the baby
She knows how she got the baby if she is, in fact, pregnant. . . by having sex! You can do NOTHING for her. She will have to tell her parents and deal with that herself. You can be there to support her IF she wants you too. Just do as the first guy says. . . don't get pregnant yourself. In other words, keep your panties ON and don't let anyone else's hands or other body parts get in them.
I know she's your friend and you dont wan to get her in trouble but trust me telling one of you parents in the log run will help her.
Since she is so young there could be major health risk for her and her baby. She might be mad at first but she will thank you later. Also just try to be there for her as much as you can and if she pushes you away just let her know you will always be there for her. Just make sure you tell an adult and if she gets mad just point out to her that she couldnt hide it forever people would notice her stomach getting bigger. Once you tell an adult they can help her decide wether to have an abortion,give the baby up for adoption or keep it. Telling her parents will help her realize she messed up but she does have choices and she has to decide whats best for her and her baby. Once someone else knows it will take away alot of the stress and worry and just all the way around help her out more than anything else you could do.
DEAR TAKE HER TO DOCTOR TO SEE IF SHE REALLY IS AND NOT PLAY A JOKE ON YOU ARE ANY ONE OK AND IF SHE IS THEN HELP YOUR FRIEND OUT BY LISTENING HELP WITH BUY THINGS FOR HER AND THE BABY BE THE BEST FRIEND YOU CAN BE AT THIS TIME OF NEED YOUR FRIEND NEEDS SOME ONE LIKE YOU RIGHT NOW AND PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE HER WITH OUT EVEN THOUGH THIS HAPPENED TO HER 12 YEAR DAUGHTER OK TAKE CARE AND HAPPY NEW YEAR
They are right, she does know how she got the baby, that's no secret. Unless she was being abused, in that case, that might be a reason that she is pushing you away, because she is afraid or trying to protect someone. Dont push, because i have learned that the more a person pushes for information, the farther away they get pushed in return. But when she does talk (which will hopefully be soon) you should try and convince her to tell her parents, because that is a secret that cannot be hidden for very long. Just be her friend, and be there. You might consider telling your mother if you feel like she would understand and not tell you to alienate yourself from her, but if you feel like you mom would overreact, i'm going to have to say that you wait a while before you tell her. Just be sensitive to your friends' needs, and be there for her. Good Luck!
she had sex, that's how she "got the baby". her life is going to be difficult from now on. her parents will find out sooner or later, but she needs to give the baby up for adoption. NO abortion. there is not much you can do.
well you should secretly tell her parentsand saying she is preganat and tell them everything but first try convencing her,and kick that guys *** you no the one how got her pregnant.
You Need To Tell Your Parents.She Needs Medical Care Or The Baby And Her Could Get Very Sick Or Die.That Is What A Good Friend Does. SHe May Get Mad But You Want Her To STay Healthy Don't You? Good Luck!
Offer her support.If she is pregnant then you go and talk to a counselor.You cant carry this burden by yourself.She may have been raped at home therefore her refusal to talk about it.She also needs to see a counsellor so that she can make some decisions about her future..
You need to talk with your parents and tell them the situation. Let your parents talk with her parents. Your friend needs help ASAP that only an adult can provide. Good luck!
are you sure she is pregnant? maybe its just a false alarm.
but if she really is pregnant than i think you shouldn't do anything about it. its none of your business i know you are trying to be an understanding friend but please leave this alone you are to young to be dealing with this
JUST TELL HER THAT YOU WILL BE THERE FOR HER NO MATTER WHAT, IF SHE NEEDS TOO. AND LET HER BE. SHE DOES KNOW HOW SHE GOT THE BABY BUT RIGHT NOW SHES IN SHOCK PROBABLY. AND I KNOW YOU KNOW HOW SHE GOT PREGNANT, AND MAYBE THIS WILL HELP YOU TO KNOW WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE GOING TO DO IT. DON'T FOLLOW IN HER STEP, YOU DON'T NEED TO GET PREGNANT. USE PROTECTION. BUT SHE DOES NEED TO TALK TO HER PARENTS AND IF SHE CAN'T THEN YOU SHOULD THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW , SO THEY COULD HELP HER. SHE MIGHT GET MAD AT YOU FOR DOING IT BUT SHE WILL GET OVER IT. GOOD LUCK.
There is not much you can do at your age. The best thing you can do is tell her parents or tell yours. It's dangerous to be pregnant so young and pregnant people need to see a doctor because so much can go wrong. There are conditions a girl can get that can kill during pregnancy.
A REAL friend would get an adult involved.
Dont let her fool you..she knows how she got pregnant; she dont want you going down the same road...She needs a lot of care for herself because she is so very young to have a child.it is a child having a child and her health is fragile being so young going through this ordeal...
She needs care...talk to pastor, guidance counselor...someone for her sake and being her friend...
oh my God, tell her parents. What makes her think she is pregnant and she doesnt know how she got it. your friend is very sensitive if she is pregnant. how does she know? did she take a test? tell the principal when no one is looking.
Not to push you down, but this is also why it is not a good idea to get pregnant so young. Most twelve year olds cannot handle the situation emotionally not to mention the severe physical strain on their bodies. The only thing you can do, if you want to trully be a good friend, is to tell her parents so they can handle this. I'm sorry if that's too hard, but in this situation it's the only thing you can really do to benefit her. She's not pushing you away because she doesn't like you as a friend. It is just very stressful for her right now-physically, mentally, and hormonally.
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