The school bully?
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Give her some more heroin?
Make her life a living hell. Pop her in the face and jump her.
Just smile ;o)
no your not mean!, gloat for a bit then be the better person you are and move on.
not at all, just try to think more positively for her now.
I met my school bully a few years ago, I had grown about 7 inches since school and it made me smile to see him squirm
You have seen with your own eyes what her hatred did to her. Continue being the sweet person you are, and be above anything that can pull you down including those feelings of self justification. Just forgive and literally forget everything that happened. She needs your prayers. Peace
You're being mean, be the bigger person and take her heroin money, then give her a swirley.
Just be proud that you now have a good life. Don't drag up the past, it isn't worth it.
Probably best to avoid any more meetings with her though.
Congratulations! You are officially better than her. You'd better do nothing other than feel great . I vote that next time you talk to her, tell her how great and wonderful your life turned out. And smile the whole time :-)
If I was in your shoes.I'd take them off 'cos they're probably too small for me.
Interesting story about the bully though.
It's Karma baby! 2 sisters I was at school with used to bully everyone, they are both junkies now and I'm always reading about their kids dads getting sent to prison for stealing and dealing drugs. I always say hi to them but smile to myself and think that they got what they deserved!!
avoid contact with her,you have a family to think about.I would not want any of drug addicts being around my family at all.They have there friends and I would not want them being around me or my family at all.its safety issue to me.Thanks
she is messed up you have a wonderful life she mad your life hell and i cant Imogen how bad it could have been but she wont realize she will only ever worry about her self i would blank her and if she says anything like '' why are you being so rude'' just say ''your a *****, that's they way you are, good luck with your life you will need it'' i would not have any respect for that girl
justicE or not you had no control over how she lived her life so you should not feel bad she ended up living that way. That's WHAT I think.
typing like a 11 year old is not cute. text speak is not for grown people.
I love it when life works out like that.
now you can feel better about yourself. look at how she ended up(heroin addict) and look how you ended up married with kids. think your better off dont you think?
Just ignore her and talk back if she talk to you and no more...she aint worth your time.
NO YOU ARE NOT,WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND,SHE DESERVES ALL SHE GET`S.
The bully at school is being bullied/abused at home.
What goes around comes around..She is paying for her cruelty.Don't bring yourself down to her level.You be proud of who you have become.She has a miserable life and you have a happy life so let it go..
Good things come to those who wait. Thats what I say , She got what she deserved. If I was in your shoes I would ignore her, those sort of people will bleed you for everything you have , stay clear and watch her ruin her life even more. And what ever you do DONT feel sorry for her cause I can asure you, she did not feel sorry for you, when she was ruining your life.
Yes, it is justice. No you are not being mean. In your shoes I would try to be pleasant and polite, but keep my distance. She did not ruin your whole life, obviously, just cast a cloud over your school days.
I later discovered that the girl who made my school life a misery had a horrible home life, was sexually abused. That made it easier somehow, she was doing what kids do, reproducing at school what those with power over her at home (where she had no power) did to her. Of course she should have known better and dealt with it in an "adult" way, but she was only a kid, and the woman I am now cannot condemn her. Especially as, like you, I have moved on and have a happy life, and she's a lump of lard in poor health.
This encounter will probably help you to rethink your schooldays, and make you even happier as a result. No need to stay in contact with her unless you want to. You can either tell her your version of your school days, or not. Write it all down though, that really helps.
I think for a few minutes I would feel justified, and then I would probably feel sorry for her and ashamed that I found pleasure in someone else's pain, even if they made my life a living hell when I was young. And I would probably include her in my prayers.
I was bullied at school by a girl who considered herself good looking, popular etc.
I went on to university, I teach, I act, I write. I'm happily married to a lovely man. have two healthy daughters a lovely house and car. I have loads of friends and hobbies
She works at the local chippy. She's covered in fat burns, has bad teeth and is basically haggard and old looking.
I relsih each and every time I go into that chippy, she has to serve me. It makes me feel good to see her, and to know she once made my life hell. I am alwaYS really nice to her an she now is really nice to me.
The way I see it is : Every dog sees its day.
I have no doubt that she is happy with her life and all power to her. I do feel however that because I can talk to her pleasantly and she can do the same we have both grown up (it does however give me little guilty satisfaction to compare our lives!)
ignore her. Make her feel like shyt.
id would not have anything to do with her? especally with the herion addiction thing it would not be good for your kids she could have caught Aids or anything. just be polite but dont offer the hand of frindship , its not as if you owe her anything is it.
You don't say how you handled the situation, but I think I would just smile and let her think what she wants to think. I would not give her my phone number or address, as you don't need that headache! Especially with her being an recovering addict.
I think just knowing where she is and knowing where you are would be enough for me.
i hate bullys i was bullied for 6 years if i was you i would not want anything to do with her 1) she made your life hell 2) shes screwed up and you dont want her mucking your life or kids life
the good guys allways win in your case thats yours x
You have done it all by being you! From what u have written you are a lovely person that has moved on with Ur life and made it wonderful! She on the other hand must of had underlying issues to bully so badly and that is why she has turned out the way she has. Please don't lower your self to make her feel the way she made u feel. Just be pleasant and be your self!
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your not being mean she deserves everything she gets for being a bully. What goes around comes around
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