How can I handle my daughter being bullied at school?
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Please take this from a normal teenager.do not listen to a word any other person just said. i use to be bullied alot when i was younger & everything those people said is crap. the best advice my mom ever gave me was hold my head up high and be proud of everything that they hurt me for. Self esteem is the best thing you can do for her. Unless its physical abuse the absolute worst thing you can do is get adults into it...it honestly only ever made the problem worse. Kids will deal it out themself...That "best friend" will grow up and forget it. They do it because its fun and when she isnt hurt by it anymore they wont have fun with it. Best thing is, what doesnt kill her will only make her stronger. Best wishes.
Tell your daughter to kill her with kind-ness, don't let anybody bring her down, find out what shes teasing her about and re-asure her.
well how old is she?? If she is in elementry school I think you should talk to the school/ teachers... becuz it shouldnt be allowed... but if she is in like high school i think you shouldnt go to the school because she will probably be teased even more. so I think you should teach her to stand up for her self... dont satnd to be pushed around or bullied... all bullies feed off of is someone who gets hurt easily and wont do anything.. all she has to do is get serious with that bully one good time and the bully should back off.
Talk the the teachers and ask them to make written notation of as many incidents as possible about this. Perhaps do so subtely, as in dont make a big deal out of it. Instruct your daughter to tell each time it happens and to tell as accurately as she can. After a few days of this, Call the parents of this girl and have a talk with them. Give them qoutes and the written notation of the teachers. Ask them to talk with their daughter. If it doesn't stop, have classes changed.
sad to say but tell your daughter to make ugly faces back at her and tell her to start teasing the girl first see if that works if not call up a parent meeting but i dont care who reports this to the yahoo cops lol i feel like in order to really get a bully off of your back you fight that bully without exchanging no words just go up to that bully and start kicking butt my personal experince when i was in jr high school and was scared like crazy when i even heard this girl name but once i put the beat down down she respected me my mom was always runing to school because i was the fight type of kid but hell even the teacher's told me to fight her lol
Make your presence known at the school. Walk her to her class and make eye contact with the bully and smile. Talk to the teacher about the problem. Encourage your daughter to find a new friend. There's probably someone in the class that this girl has done this too as well and maybe they can start a new friendship.
I know what you're going through. Just keep talking to your daughter and encouraging her. Let her know that even adults can act silly like that and be glad that she's not like that.
Go have a conversation with your daughter's friend's guardian. If that doesn't work, have a converssation wtiht he principle or make her attend another school.
Walk your daughter to school/class one day and if you see the girl that is taunting your daughter, bring her aside and tell her it's not nice to tease and if she doesn't stop you will talk to her Mom and her teacher about it. If it continues then speak to her mother.
talk to the teachers and the principal about this. they should be able to help you solve this problem. explain to your daughter that everything is going to be ok and that the best thing for her to do is to ignore them. chances are that if she learns how to not let this bother her when this child does this then eventually they will stop. it is really rough for kids out there today and they need all of the support and guidance that they can possibly get. hope this helps. good luck.
talk to her teacher about it. if u cant get in contact with her teacher talk to the girl's parents.
My children's school has a "no bullying" policy. Go to your principal and talk to him/her. That should put a stop to it. They have a responsibility to intervene. If you don't get any results, then, go to your districts superintend ant's office and file a complaint. Every child has a right to attend school in a safe environment. Bullying should not be tolerated. Bring up the Columbine incident. That was partially caused by bullying. See what they got to say about that.
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