7yr. old just won't stop acting up in school!?

Argueing w/ teacher, she puts him in the hallway, looses recess, pushed a boy down on recess at latchkey, mud on his pants. Yelled out Jesus Christ in Latchkey. My son just won't stop! Over Thanksgiving break he spent time @ 2 family memebers up North. (I stayed home)They tell me he was an angel but did notice he can't get along w/ other kids. One on one is best for him. He is a sweet kid w/ a big heart but a monster in school. How do I stop him? I punish him, take things away. My family says he doesn't need to be medicated. But just a monster in school since Pre-school. Hurts kids, can't focus. What do you call this? Teachers are working very close w/ him but I can't have him keep hurting kids. He has been suggested to have an MRI by his new Pediatrician. Had MRI at 1yrs. for developmental delay. I am going crazy.what do I do? Is there a different school I can put him in? No one giving me answers. Had him on ADHD meds, don't work, & 2 counselors. Dad not around.

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When I misbehaved at 10, they called my Mom and she came in and spanked me. Very embarrassing for me, but quite effective. Times have changed though.
it might be because he doesn't have a dad around I wouldn't punish him for the stuff he does at school he's 7 maybe he just needs a good male role model I had no dad and did a lot of stuff growing up its hard when u see your friends doing stuff with there dads and u can not good luck
ok this is whut u do tack him to a siclgist and thay will pshriv im with suthing and just tell them thay are going to the DR then ok but it will work i have the same thang and the meddsin is workin so call and scegle and apontment with a sicolgest and tell them ok !!
this is the problem in todays society. parents dont punish their children as severe anymore. taking away toys? thats only going to anger him. Instead you should try whacking him with a stick. then when he nags or fights back, hit him again until he notices that the more he nags, the more he gets hit. seriously, giving your child a good spanking should work.
home schooling or boys training school.. might be an option..
This is why you don't reproduce. Kids don't WANT to behave with all the rules... Get a clue and stop spitting them out...
If his pediatrician suggests an MRI I would definately get it done. There must be something specific the dr suspects. Also were the counselors you took him to just counselors or were they licensed psychiatrists. If they weren't psychiatrists then they may have missed something when talking to your son. I would recommend having his teacher write a letter outlining the behavior he exibits in class and what methods she has tried to remedy them and then you do the same and take all of that to your ped. and ask him to recommend a good psychiatrist. I dont think your son has ADHD it sounds more like an emotional disorder. I truly don't believe that this is just him being 7, or a phase that will pass. I also don't think that punishments will work. Especially if this is some kind of emotional disorder. I would get him in to see someone as quickly as possible befor this escalates into something much worse. Good Luck.

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