What do u do when someone speaks to u rudely all the time?
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At first, I thought you were talking about a 2 yr old, not 20. You know what? If he's living at home, set the rules, YOU DO NOT TALK TO ME IN THAT TONE, IF YOU FEEL ALL GROWN GET YOUR OWN APARTMENT AND FIND OUT WHAT THE REAL WORLD IS!
Let him know, I'm not doing this just because you're being polite only when you want something, be a grown man and do it your self.
I'll do things for you once you learn how to respect me!
Explain to him how the way he speaks to you makes you feel. Tell him that you will not respond to him from now on when he acts that way. Then no matter what ignore him in the future.
he is using u don't ansewr him back when he is polite!!!!
Punish him by every rude phrase he utters you cut off a privelage from him. he is 20 and living at home I assume. When you get too big for you britches it is time to change them, at hos own apartment. When new adults, drunk with freedom start disrespcting thier parents and disregarding thier rules and wishes they are seeking to plant roots and assert thier adulthood but they should be doing that in thier OWN house on in the basement that they are paying $60 a week to stay in but if it gets out of hand then he should get his own place. You don't have to tolerate it BUT he has the right to express himself but just somewhere else that he is paying for. Disrespecting you at all is wrong but making him live on his own or carry his own weight may tenderize that smart mouth. As a parent you have the control.
Unless his attitude changes and he can treat you like a decent human being, kick his @ss out! You don't have to put up with that crap, son or not. Your kids should show you respect.
Tell your son that he needs to get a loan of some sort, and that he is a big boy and needs to get work done for himself. He may not like the idea at first but later in life he will greatly appreciate it, because he can say truthfully that he has accomplished something in life.
Seems to me he has lost respect for you somewhere along the way. You need to nip that in the bud right away. And he is 20 years old. let him do things for himself. Why is he asking YOU to do things for him? Pack his undies and say.go out and do for yourself.That'll teach him a whole new respect for you!
how about you kick his backside out trust me its not til this happen to my bro did he start to get some repect for my ma he knows exactly what hes doing if he changes his tone wen he want somthing your being to soft ...dont do things for him or give him money. just think about how you'd treat a stranger who did this to you. he'll do it as long as you let him. remember its your home and your life if you had more confidence in yourself you wouldnt let anyone treat you so get a new focus in your life and he'll soon learn
20 yrs old?? My gosh, he needs to grow up! Tell him that you will no long accept him speaking to you that way and will not acknowledge the conversation when he does speak to you that way. Then follow through!! You have the right not to be a doormat and he needs to learn he can't treat people like that.
either ignore them because than it's not fun to them anymore to pick on you, or just talk back to them like they do to you.
When he speaks to you, listen to what he is saying. Respond to what he has said. Do not react. Take a breath, think of what you want to say and say it calmly and respectfully.
When he speaks to you disrespectfully tell him, "Son, I do not speak to you that way.why are you talking to me like that?" and he will have to think about it.
Decide how you want to respond to a smart response. "Son, that was rude, I'd thought more of you." and drop it. "Son, that was disrespectful, and you're better than that behavior." and drop it.
He should be working and going to school. Help him to do this. He should own and maintain a car. Help again. Not do. Guide him. Require this. Have conversation about what he has to do to move out and live independent from Mom and Dad.
Picture the young man who is moving out. Pick a target date. Aim for the end result, and help him become an adult.
hes 20?
well hes way past spankings age.
just tell him if he doesent speak nicer to you that you are going to kick his ***. That should guarantee some results.
or just refuse to help him.
ok if someone say something rude to you ignore and pray on it later. or if there in your face say something about the bible and keep going. tell them " god bless your soul" just keep your head up
I would knock their *** out
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