Should i stay or should i go?
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Thats a tough one. First off, nine month old babies don"t know not to pull peoples hair, so if she wants to spank him, she is nuts. Second, next time she sticks her nose into your business, just tell her that it isn't any of her concern, and to butt-out. (Be rude if you have to) Third, I would not let her take your child anywhere if you don't feel safe with it. If something happens after you let her take him against your better judgment, you will never forgive yourself.
The most important thing you can do, however, is to talk to your boyfriend and let him know how this makes you feel. Don't take any unilateral action, he is going to have to back you up every step of the way. If he is not willing to help you deal with him mother, then tell him that you want ot move out if things don't change. That will probably bring him around.
Good luck.
Stay, she wont live too long.
run to the hills.grandma has issues..if b/f doesn't join ya then go w/o him.
Yep I really think its time to get your own place. Stick to your guns and raise your baby how you see fit.
Uh, yeah she is. Calling her mama and you by your name? What kind of crazy talk is this?? Can you financially afford to get your own place or have family you can live with close by your boyfriend? It doesnt sound like you want to say goodbye to your boyfriend, just his creepy mother (who would ever think of spanking a 9mth old?). I hope you can remove yourself from this sort of environment, for yourself and for your son.
Your boyfriend need to be the one to deal with his mother. He needs to set some boundaries when it comes to you and your son. Try to communicate and work it out, if nothing changes or you feel threatened then leave.
Go! Go quickly and don't look back.
Babies always pull hair and will eventually start hitting and throwing things. I hope your baby hits her good right in the head to knock some sense into her. Your boyfriend is right to be there for his mother, as everyone should be there for their family. I would understand a spanking but only by the parents and only when the child is older. I have 2 twin nieces that just turned 3 and they call my mom mama and call my sister jessica which is what her name is because everyone always calls her jessica. and me and my sister always call our mom mama. So i guess they got that from us. I am sure they will grow out of that though.
Just have ur husband call u mama ( lol) may help a little. Why not be ur hubbys mama. Good Luck.
Get out of there.....
Move out...bf will follow sooner or later.JUst don't put pressure on him.
Do NOT live with relatives! on either side. It will only be your place with your rules when you get a place of your own. It doesn't mean that your boyfriend can't be there for his mother. He could visit her often if he wants to help out. If he really wants to help, he should side with you, if not...then he sure isn't husband material.
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