What if you are 13 year old and being sexuly abused but are homeschooled but go to coulsling?
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CALL 911 fast, there is no excuse for sexual abuse! Talk to someone, anyone, yes your counselor would be great. Just please get help.
Tell your counceler, or tell a police man as soon as you see one. Look in the local phone book for abuse hotlines.
Call child protective services or CPS. If you google "child protective services" and the state you live in, you can contact them via email, internet, phone whatever.
speak to the couns. or if there is a homeschool assc that you meet with speak to them if that is more comfortable
Tell the councelor immediately.Its not your fault.
Are you being sexually abused by the person who is home schooling your or your counselor if so, you need to find another adult you can talk to or report this to the police.
my name is melanie too
but thats terrible... tell your councillor.. and call the police... DO NOT be afraid to do it... they cant hurt you if theyre caught6 by the police...
be carefull... i hope youre ok... seriously... dont be afraid to tell someone... get help..
TALK TO THE COUNSELOR! If you are asking for another person then you should tell someone soon for the sake of the person you are asking for. There are plenty of people who are sworn to confidentiality including any doctors or nurses and they would know who to contact to help this 13 yo. Get help as soon as possible.
Please...I beg you...See the police, speak to your councillor, a trusted friend or family member, your doctor...what is happening to you is not right or fair or just. You may have mixed feelings about your abuser but it all come down to the fact that what they are doing to you is illegal and morally wrong. Please,please,please seek out some help and a safe haven. good luck! :-)
tell your councler they will get you safe help
Please call the police... NOW!! I don't know who is doing this but please have the person go somewhere safe, a neighbor's house, a friend's house, whatever, and call. Don't wait. That person is probably doing this to others or have done this to others.
If they or your don't feel comfortable doing that tell the counselor. They have to report it - it is their code of ethics. But please call. I am concerned about safety. No one has the right to touch anyone that way.
TELL SOMEONE. Seriously, that's so important, especially if the people homeschooling you are the ones doing the abusing. Tell your counselor they know what to do and will help you. It takes a lot of courage. I was sexually abused as a child and am still dealing with it. I hope you get out of this situation and have a good life. I will pray for you. Don't be afraid.
you definatly should tell your coulsleR!!!! That must suck! You should tell someone even if it is embrassing.. I know what u r going through.. Just tell someone and they will put a stop to it.
please do not allow this terrible wrong to be done to you. It must stop. You are a victim and you must talk to someone.
A policeman, a doctor, a nurse, but please do something.
best idea is tell the state department of family services when you are not at home or around whoever does the abuse.
they should have a 1-800 telephone number in your state.
they may place you in foster care or somewhere else for your protection . be prepared.
i was physically abused not sexually and it was scary to leave but staying where oyu get abused is always the worst choice.
be safe!
I'd go to the police. They'll do what's right. Also, whoever is being sexually abused here, a good book to read- "Recovering from Rape." If the abused person goes to the hospital to be examined or anything-don't be afraid- they will do everything they can to help you. Also- that's where they give you that book- at least in my case. It took me a few years to read it, but it really did help me. Don't be afraid to talk to others who've been through a similar situation. It can really help!
tell yor parents or your friend or someone you trust.
Honey, who is abusing you? Can you tell your parents, a neighbor, the counselor, your minister? Do you have access to the police? Can you write a note with your name and address and the abuser's name, and place it in the mailbox? If you have access to a computer, can you email the local police department or a friend or submit the information to oprah's website a (or any web site).
Do you have a relative or friend who would come get you? The thing you want to avoid is having to go back home after they know you reported them. Or call CPS (some places it's called DCFS- department of child and family services) and tell them what's going on and that you need to get out of there ASAP. Or take a taxi to a women's shelter. Women's shelters are very safe places.
Know it's not your fault and there is help out there. Don't give up and keep trying until you get out. Don't let your family know you're trying to report them or they'll probably watch you more carefully.
Tell the counselor and they are trained to handle these things discreetly and in the best possible outcome for you. Don't put up with it for another day. You're worth it and it's NEVER the child's fault.
im confused...on the question...get help.call a 800 helpline or the police
ok First to EVERYONE who told her to see a counceler she said she was HOMESCHOOLED meaning she does not have a counceler Second Call the police right away
then she needs to tell an adult, so they can get her out of this situation. abused children have so many difficulties and problems when they are not helped. id help anyone who came to me with this situation.
You must tell someone and put an end to this person's actions..this person should be exposed and remember this person might tell you not to tell anyone about it..but you should...think about how many other kids you can save from this monster!
Don' t ever hide something like this. Please tell your counselor immediately.
GET OUT OF THE HOUSE NOW. U NEED TO RUN TO A PHONE OR FRIENDS RIGHT NOW. DONT LOOK BACK.
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