''HELP''! I really need a suggestion?
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Altho' I don't agree with your methods of throwing things and being a general pain-in-the-a**, Y not try reverse psychology? Make like you have something hidden in a bag or book or in your locker, and when they are near,make like you are conceiling "it" from them...That should picque their curiosity and then they will have to approach YOU...now you are in control, and you choose to NOT share your "secret" with them.play this for all that it is worth, and maybe they will come "around" and then reveal the hoax...hopefully to everyone's feeling silly and laughing about it later...by then, you will have "broken the ice" and then can decide if they are worthy of YOUR friendship! In other words...YOU be the COOL ONE...and let them come to you! You shouldn't have to "beg" for someone's friendship! A Friend is someone who WANTS to be there...not because YOU NEED them, but because they need YOU!
Maybe the poking at them, and throwing pencils at them, and punching them ...is really pissing them off! Who would want to talk to someone who has an aggressive and violent personality? If they don't want to socialize with you, accept it and move on. I'm sure there are other people there who are willing to give you a chance, as long as you don't punch, or poke or throw pencils at them. Geeze.
They probably don't want to be friends with you then. Sorry to be blunt. Go find someone else and don't poke them, punch them, or throw pencils at them. That makes you look immature. Please check your spelling before you post a question so you don't embarrass yourself
Wow! though question but first stop hitting them they probably think its annoying. And why don't you try to talk to them about tings they may like.
Try observing them. See what they joke about or how they converse with each other. If they are not into talking try passing notes or making a picture for them. Be careful with how you try to interact if they are not into talking in the first place, it may make them more resistent.
Maybe get a life.
It seems like they're not really into you... and throwing pencils and poking them probably isn't helping. I don't really understand the poking. Don't peope have to be friends to poke?
Perhaps you should try the usual small talk: "What bands are you into?" or "What do you want to be when you grow up?" or "I like your outfit. Very chic." or talk about movies/TV. Or show her/him your current artwork and say "What do you think?"
Or maybe you could go straight to the fun questions, like : "What do you think you were in your previous life? Why?" or "If you could have anything in the world right now, what would it be?" (hopefully they won't say 'for you to shut up!') or "What would you want your house to look like if you had unlimited money and space to build?"
But I really just think that you should be yourself and hang out with the people that you feel comfortable with, like...you FRIENDS. ;)
Being mean to them won't help. No one likes a bully or a stalker.
Unfortunately there's no way to make them like you. The best thing to do is (an i know is sounds stupid but) just be yourself.
If they don't want to be your friend after that than they're really just losers.
Take the hints...they don't want to know you! Leave them alone and find some other juvenille people who enjoying being poked and having pencils thrown at the!
mabye you should stop annoying them and try some new people. Sorry to be rude but you have probally over annoyed them.
Take it as a lesson for the next try at making friends.
The old adage "Do unto to others as you want them to do unto you" is pretty fitting here. You will find that females, especially hate obnoxious behavior. Don't beat yourself up for making a mess, just don't repeat the same nehavior.
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