19 year old girl beat up?

my friend who is 19 years old just got beat up very badly by her mom for no apparent reason who punched her repeatedly and whipped her with a belt , she is now bruised and swollen. She doesnt have anywhere to go and her father and brother are pretending like it didnt happen. does anyone have advice on what she should do to get herself out of this situation?

Answer:
She should press domestic violence charges against her mother and get her own place.
ask her why her mom beat her and if it wasn't a good reason then you should definitely call child services. Imagine if her mom beat her death next week. You'd regret that you didn't get her help earlier.
call social services for her and let them know whats goin on so they can help
tell ur mom, talk to her about it..and if shes up for reporting it, tell the police? im not that sure ive never rele been in ur situation-sorry
call the police
first she is 19 a adult she doesn't have to go back, but she can file domestic abuse on her mother, but she will have to go down right away to press charges so they can have pics. of the abuse.
She can move out...notice you are asking this question not her. Maybe she likes people to think of her as a victim, maybe she wants people to feel sorry for her. Otherwise why does a 19 year old girl stay in an abusive situation? If she wanted to make changes she could. It's about helping yourself, no one can do it for you. She has a chance to leave every day and she doesn't.


100 percent dependent on your mom when your 19??? Its sounds like she is willing to get beat up as long as her mom keeps her in money.

It's called work, see people who don't want to get their *** kicked by abusive parents WORK and pay thier own way through life.
She needs to call the police and get medical help if necessary. Their are places she can go if needed be like for instance a shelter if their are no alternative solutions for her.
call the social services and she should get her own place
She should be able to go to a shelter for abuse victims. If you are a good friend you will get on it and find her a place to go. Of course, you can't make her go. Does she attend school? Maybe a counselor can help her. Or a free clinic. If she goes there for her injuries they could help her find a new home. She probably is worried about not having any place to go. Good luck!
Sounds like she needs to get a job and get out of there. She's old enough to live on her own.
Even if she was to call a help line they are going to get the police involved but the thing is if she has no where to go The police or Help line investigator will put her in a place where she can live with other girls around her age, they also give her clothes and schooling supplies, and some times they'll give you money to help the people there out a Little more

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