Am I doing the right piece?
I called the police an I'm going down in attendance to file a report (my husband took him to the hospital for stitches). Then my husband and I fixed to take our kids to a hotel to return with away from the neighborhood. Am I doing whats right?
Answers: That is what I would do. That must have be so scary for you! I am so sorry. Good luck.
i chew over u may be acting a bit extreme. what that boy did is not right but there will other be bullies. u should talk to his parents.
wowa that's extreame
You took him to a hotel? The bully isn't a hit man, he isn't going to track you down or anything... you freshly need to make conversation to the parents
You should have found some other kid to pummel the **** out of him for that, im 14 and i would have kicked that kids *** for you.
I surely think you are doing the right item by calling the police.
In today's society of zero-tolerance for bullies, we need to convey a stern message!
yes file a report is right, not only is that invective, but its bullying. and i believe thats against the law for school. idk about moving to a hotel, but yes, if you quality that that is a right point to doo, move to a different neighborhood if you like.
I construe your being for a time extreme I would have go and talked to Devons parents and than if they didn't do anything I would of call the cops but I wouldn't of took my kids to a hotel. What was your kid doing playing next to Devon in the middle of the dark anyway?
yes... no thirteen year old desires to beat up on a 5 yr feeble.... yes you are doing the right thing....!
Yes you probably are. If you live surrounded by a bad neighborhood and your kids procure hurt or abused you should go somewhere else until you can find a investigational place.
thats cool, but maybe too much i probably would thump that 13 year old boy up my self if i be u, but im not so yeah
Well, unless you plan to move away permanently, you want to deal next to this situtation head-on. You filed a police report, which is great. But you also want to confront the parents of this kid. Do they know what happened? Are they going to compensate you for the hospital bills? Are they going to save an adequate guard on this kid to engender sure he doesn't do this anymore?
I'm assuming the answer is no because, let's face it, if they be doing their job as parents he wouldn't be spanking people up contained by the first place. But they need to be support accountable. Talk to a attorney and sue them.
I don't know the circumstances that would compel you to go to a hotel instead of staying where on earth you're at, but everything else was correct. I sure would resembling to know how Devon had access to your son surrounded by the first place.
Additional: Thank you for taking the time to include those additional details.
The common sense I said what you did was correct is that Devon is greatly much older than your son and your son is extraordinarily young, for this reason I imagined Devon should know better and that he was also at lowest possible twice the size of your son if not more.
I wasn't sure if you lived surrounded by an apartment complex or something where Devon could confidently get at your son, but by the deportment in which you wrote your interview I assumed you might not be one to react on sentiment alone. So It seemed that you must hold what you considered to be a good basis to go to a hotel.
I hope by yours and your husband's activities that Devon is steered away from visiting anger upon others, and hope that Ethan recovers from this ordeal.
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Yes...I would not press charges(yet) but its virtuous the police know.
Your husband should confront the kid and his parents.....parents first. If they condone this behavior your husband is gonna have to suck it up and blacken some eyes of his own. ...but don't hit the 13 year mature...just put him over your knees and wait till cars exceed by to blister his ***. Embarrassment works wonders
What? Ok, how did you not notice your sons black eye ending night? Or are you dictum this happened rash in the morning while your child be outside un supervised and without your awareness? Why would you go stay at a hotel because your son get beat up by a bully? What could the bully do to you? Call the police to be sure this kid get punished and stay in your home. Running is not something you want to drill your son.
Running is not a good model. Confront this boy and his parents. Maybe his mother and father do not know what is going on. Man a 13 year old measure up a 5 year old, what a BEEP. I enjoy a 5 year old son. I focus I might lose my mind if a 13 year old batter him like that. If the parents don't meticulousness then yes inform the police and try to preserve your son away from this other boy. Actually keep him away. The boy may doing something worse within retaliation.
Of course you are, mom! That punk Devon needs a central wake up phone call and I hope the police deliver it. Sorry this happened to your little boy!
What be your 5 yr old doing outside by himself surrounded by the first place? I would definitely address that issue first. None of that would enjoy happened if he hadn't be outside alone.
Filing a police report and taking your son to the hospital is the right thing to do. The hotel could provide some melodious, safe and fun time (pool) for the sunshine, but don't stay longer. You don't want him to think he can stockpile.
My bigger concern is why was he outside so rash and you didn't know it? Kids can be sneaky, I'd make sure you hold some way of knowing if they move out the house.
So how early be the 5 year old up for this to enjoy happened? Where be he when it happened? Is this a story he may enjoy told because he was too embarassed to speak he fell trying to climb a tree or something?
I would have gone and checked things out first beside Devon and his parents.
I would go ahead near the report but there are abundantly of other questions that stipulation to be asked.
Calling the police was completely right.... 20 years ago I would say no, but kids immediately shoot each other. They don't a short time ago fist fight anymore. You can't tolerate this run you out of your home, but you should get away for a few days. Let your child settle down from it, but you should stay resting on the police and the school to find out how much of a physical threat this kid is. You have to protect your child to the best of your flair. Be careful. Kids don't play much anymore. They are becoming as brutal as the adults.
It is always right to protect your people. Your kids depend on you to do just that. Yes, calling the police be the right thing to do. Going to a hotel to touch safe is right also. You do what you obligation to do to keep your nearest and dearest safe. If it is a unpromising neighborhood you live in, find another place to live as soon as you can afford to. Taking preventive measures is other smart. Don't doubt yourself or worry that citizens might think you are paranoid. I would to some extent be" paranoid" or safe than hurt somewhere. Good luck honey.
You are definitly doing the right piece. You are his mother and your instincts should be trusted. Ehtan is only 5 a 13 yr. weak should have never done that to such somewhat boy. Good Luck!
you are right, you need to consider the possiblity of finding a exotic neighborhood, it is unlikely that boy will stop being a bully, and may try to retaliate because he be turned in unless the police convince him of the error of his ways.
Something dosn't ring my bell right here ?
This happen during the night ?
If i did, you should own a talk to the parents of this 13 yr matured and called the police is obligatory.
I know we as parents of a almost 13 would take doings quickly.
why did he catch up so early and stir outside?? but i think you did a flawless thing because that would be a horrible bully to pulsate up a 5 year old, but i don't regard i would have gone to a hotel i would enjoy gone to his parents house.
I think you did the right item, bullying is against the law and it must be stopped. That must hold been remarkably shocking and traumatic for your son. Taking him to a hotel probably made him a lot touch better and more safe and loved, and specifically very key. I think following your mother's instincts is the best entity to do. You shouldn't question your engagements for that situation, you made the right choice. You seem approaching a very loving parent, and it shows by what you did. Your son is especially lucky to have you as a mom.
I meditate taking him to a hotla may have ben a moment or two bit extreme, but you were right to phone the police, i would press charges.
A 13 year dated physically bullying a 5 year old is had it. Id have completly lost it. Id probably win hold of the 13 year old myself and upset him but you probably should go and see his parents, rob pictures of your sons injuries and press charges
This kid cannot get away near this behaviour. He could finish off up seriously hurting or killing someone if hes that uncontrolled now whats he going to be resembling in anoth 5 years.
I ruminate that following the chain of command is probably the best opening to go. I would enjoy called the parents of the 13 year ripened first and then I would agree to them know that I was going to folder a police report. As for going to a hotel, I think that this may be a touch extreme. I know you said the boy looked more like 18 however imagine about the lesson you are instruction your child, not to mention the bully....
Your son is going to get the message that it is okay to run away when intimidated. The bully will catch the message that he has won. I am not suggesting that your 5 year antiquated son should confront the bully head on but I would not want to show my child that it is okay to live within fear. Teach him to obverse his fears.
I think you are right to report to the police. This 13 year antiquated boy needs to know that what he did be not okay, and I also think you are right that a 13 year old-fashioned boy beating up a 5 year prehistoric goes beyond average bullying. Also I regard that it is important that your son know that it is not okay for this boy to get away near what he did and that you will do the right thing to protect him and to try to get sure this doesn't happen again.
Not sure what your motivation be for taking your children to the hotel. Was it to provide your son with some sense of safekeeping after getting attacked in an otherwise okay district? or is it generally an unsafe one, and you feel you needed a break or a step toward a more permanent move? Both are apt rationalizations, but if your neighbourhood is mostly okay, get your boy backbone there, and support into his routine fairly like lightning so that he learns that this is an isolated incident, and he can be undamaging at home.
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