Would this be wrong??
Answers: Oh hell no!! It is not wrong, he is your first child, just because your step daughters mother didn't get hold of off her *** and do stuff for her afterwards it isn't any problem of yours and it shouldn't impede what you do for your son. Most of the time baby books and such are more of a memory piece for the mothers, you may say you will ratify it on, but until your kids have kids of their own it wont expect as much to them as it does to you. Keep doing what you are doing with your son YOU ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG AT ALL!! You can possibly throw a big birthday party for your step daughter so she see that it isn't just almost your son, and maybe you could start a hang on to sake book with her, from her party and special things she does with you as a line.
Some people are idiots and approaching to make you second guess everything you do, please don't listen to them, you must be a great mum and are doing the best you can wich is adjectives you can do, you aren't a super hero are you?? Lol.
You know what you would like to do to remember your sons duration because as you said they do grow up so fast, I am doing exactly alike thing next to both of my kids and no-one would tell me otherwise, they are my flesh and blood and I love them beside all my heart and what nearly if something happened to them sometime.....at least you would own something tangible to swing on to and remind you of when they were little.
Keep going next to your keepsakes, you carried him for nine months, give birth and have be looking after him, you are his mother and are intitled to do anything with and for him (unless it is classed as abuse) it is a drastically special memory and the ones who have a problem near it obviously haven't done one themselves!
NO! Just because she have a mom who didn't think it be important plenty to do those things for her doesn't mean that you enjoy to treat your son the same style. That would be stupid!
It would be a really nice idea for you to start collecting things/pictures for your step daughter on your own and putting them surrounded by a "memory box" so that she has *something* and doesn't quality like you're doing things for your son and not for her, but even explicitly optional and not really your prerequisite.
You can't raise your child base on what his ex did with their daughter, I enjoy two step daughters too and I am expecting right now. I am going to do as I surface with my child and her denial of compassion for her children will not dictate my decisions. My two never have a birthday party until they met me and immediately they have one every year but child will have one every year from birth because she is my child. I can't control what happen before me and you can't any.
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