How can i get energy to plesure my man?
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You should just hire a hot nanny, everything will fall into place once you do. Good Luck!
you are the woman
all you have to do is just lay there
edit: I agree with major awesome...except i would go one step further and say have a threesome with the nanny.
dont worry about it. take a hot shower before you go to bed and that should wake you up a little. then get too it. when things are going then you won't notice how tired you are. good luck
Maybe he should help out some more with the baby, then ya'll would both be tired.
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maybe see how you feel in the mornings. Let him know how exhausted you are. Tomorrow morning when you wake if he isn't awake yet. Wake him up with a kiss and some loving. I learned that I have more energy in the morning. I have 3 kids so i know what you are going thru.
by eating right you`ll have more energy
Ask your man to help out with the baby. He will also be equally tired as you are and will not demand much. If this does not work, buy him a video game and let him go play with it and not bother you. :)
tell him he needs to help you with the baby, and around the house- not just once but ALL the time, and when you regain enegery then your sex life will improve- tell HIM to quit whining and help
Ask your husband to just be patient with you . It takes time to get back into the swing of things. Maybe if he helped out more that would free up some of your time so you can take a nap. Also, exercise, like walking the baby in the stroller may help to boost your energy.
Let him look after the kid for a bit!
As tired as you may be, sometimes just starting some intimacy will make you get "in the mood." You may not feel it right away, but once you get into it, like kissing or touching, you have to work your way into it. If you get used to not having that, you might stop wanting it altogether. I know you're tired, but if you have desire and want to keep your man happy (although he should know your baby and rest come first) at least put a little effort into it. Even if it is only maybe once a week at first. Good luck.
This is an easy one for me because I have a 6 month old and I basically try to start something right after I get the little one to sleep.
Or you can find a close friend or family member that you feel comfortable with watching your little one at THEIR house and plan a night for just the two of you at your house so you can have some couple time.
Get him to take over the baby as soon as he comes home to give you a break. If he's not helping out, he doesn't deserve any.
And 3 months is awfully soon, anyway.
Maybe you need a new man?
Yup I have the same problem and so do most other mothers of small children. Understandably you are tired and understandably he is horny. You have to compromise. Once or twice a week get the energy up to have sex with him and the other nights tell him to have some sympathy!
Do you have anyone who can watch the baby? Sometimes it's nice to just have a little time alone, whether you guys have sex or not. See if maybe one of the grandma's or relatives will watch the baby, and have some mommy and daddy time, alone!
You can always take off for a weekend and let some one else take care of the baby. You can go on a trip to someplace romantic and you can give your man something special. I'm sure someone will want to take care of a cute three month yr old baby. Have fun keep it as a vacation!
Tell him to stop being so inconsiderate and understand it is hard being a mom, get him to help at weekends with night feeds then you can spend some quality time with your man without being to tried.
I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL! Trust me girl. I know you dont want to. Not necissarily dont want to but i know its hard to. I have an idea, try to get him to do what you do for an ahour or so. No help from you what so ever. After he does he should realize its not easy taking care of a newborn and it is hard work. Let him know after he comes to you tired and aggitated from taking care of the baby, that you do it all day and he did in for one hour. If that doesnt work, try just once to get into bed with him and do your thing. Act like you really enjoy it, yet are tired. He should get the picture and take it alittle bit more easy on you. If not he needs to grow up and look at the picture just like my husband did. Hang in there girl, youll be ok.
Next time he gets mad, turn on the shower for him and tell him to become familiar with Rosy Palm & her 5 sisters.
You have a 3 month old! Where does he think the energy (or desire, for that matter) is going to come from? Worse comes to worse, get someone to watch the baby, go out to dinner and then have at it.
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