OK so I'm 15 and have a 6month old baby am i a skank?
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You're not a skank! In life, you are only given what you can handle and it's what you make of it that creates success.Keep up the good work sister!
weren t you on here with the same question ??
what in the world caused you to have sex at that age? you are an idiot if nothing else.
I dont think your a skank at all.You just werent educated on sex.Hats off to you for having your baby.You had courage & I believe can be a good mother.
Same answer as the last time you ask this question. You are too young to give your baby what it needs.
What is a skank?
You're not an idiot for having sex at such an early age(these days most lose their virginity at 13) but you are an idiot for not practicing safe sex.
no your not a skank..theres alot of young women out there with babies,,,your not the first you wont be the last...aslong as your a good mother to your daughter...i say and good luck with your schooling..hope your getting lots of help from granny
no you are not a skank, things happen not just to you but everyone hold your head up high who cares what everyone else thinks
I wish you had waited to be married before you did that...
Sweetie everyone makes mistakes. You sound as if you are getting your life together and have learned from having a baby at such a young age. Just stay in school and continue to make your mom, dad, and your child proud of you.
Darling, just so long as you keep going with your education.
I think you are very lucky to have the support of your family and i think that you will get there in the end.
In other words, NO, i do NOT think you are a skank.
That is when someone just does not care at all and keeps popping out babies without a thought to its future.
I think you will be an awesome doctor too.
Maybe you will help lots of people.
Best of luck honey. I think you will make it.
its good you kept your baby. i suggest maybe a better birth control method for the future though... maybe abstinence
Everyone makes mistakes. Having sex was a poor choice and now you are living with the consequences. However, it looks like you are making some great decisions now. Good for you, that you are still working on your education and you are striving to make a future for yourself.
What would have made you a skank was if you had the baby, dropped out of school and kept having sex and more babies.
Don't allow people to define you by one action. Just because you had a baby does not make you a bad person. In fact, it brought out your true character and showed what an intelligent person you really are.
It doesn't matter what people think you are it is important how you feel about yourself. If you want to be a good mom carry yourself as a adult now. you were a child when you had sex and that is sad but now you have to be mature to be the best example to your baby and to those around you.
baby's having baby's wow. good luck with that.
People will always judge thats what society does and by having sex that young having a wonderful new life and making the choice to raise her some may say isnt responsible I however applaud you on your choice and the fact that you have support from your family, goals and plans just continue to be a good mommy and it may be hard but try and develop a tough skin because people will assume things and think things. You dont need to hear how hard it is going to be I have a feeling you realize just how hard it is and that it only gets harder. Good luck. And good job on sticking and staying in school many girls who get pregnant that young don't do that and become statistics and drop out by getting an education having a goal of college even though it will be difficult will help you to show your child that you beat the odds and that way you can provide a good life for them.
I think your being a good mom. I think you made the mistake of having sex before marriage and it's going the be hard to make friends sometimes because of that. At least you didn't have an abortion.
No, you're not. You just made some mistakes when you were younger. That doesn't make you a skank. I've seen people older than you do a lot worse.
I commend you for not taking the easy way out and following through with your actions.
there is nothing wrong with you, you made one mistake and it is not the baby. you sound like you have a goal stick with it
and you will go far and what ever ppl say about you it just words
and you will rise above their hate good luck
If you have to ask people if you are a skank, I think it's safe to say you are not very smart
Just make sure that you take care of your responsibility and do what you have to do. You will be okay as long as you don't lose the focuse that you need to have and realize that your future is going to be different then what you thought.
I wouldnt say u were...u r just young and made a bad decison...13 is young to start having sex and i hope u learned your lesson...but it sounds like u r doing a great job...i comened u , most young girls your age would have pretty much pond the baby off on their parents and just start being 15 again...i dont even know u and im proud of u...u r taking on a huge responsibility at your age...congrats your your little one and keep up the good work.
Usually, a mother (whatever her age) has sense a mother. It grows well on you, and I hope you won't bore with all activities of being a mother. I proud that you can take care of your baby very well, because it's not easy being a single parent on your age.
Have you married ? I advise you to get married soon, so that your life will complete. You are a good mom, and I believe you can be a good wife also. A complete and happy family give your baby good emotional health, and won't do the same wrong thing (having sex on very early age) like you.
First there is not such things as 'safe sex' It is called 'safer sex" safe sex would be to NOT being having sex at all.
And second you do not do it all. You do not pay your own bills drive your self places you need to go or pay to have someone else watch your child while you are at school or work.
No you are NOT a skank. You are young.
I am proud of you for wanting to finsh your schooling and to go onto becoming a doctor and I pray that you do this.
No, you aren't a skank. Young. very young and didn't make the best choice to have sex (I'm assuming it was a choice) that was not properly protected. I'm sure you are doing your best to be the best mom you can be. Unfortunately, when you are that young its a lot harder, you haven't learned all the things you will have learned by the time you reach an age when people normally have kids. BUT, as long as you have help, (and please accept any good help you can get) you will do fine. In most cases, its better for a child to be mothered by their own mom if thats loving, safe, effective mothering.
.. you can do it, but realize since you made that choice to live like a grown up and have sex, you have to act like one and be one NOW.
Asking immature questions, and worrying over whether or not you are a skank are pretty childish. Be a good, mom, get your education, work hard to be smarter, more mature and give your child the best. I'm sure you can do it.
you do not need the reassurance of 25 strangers telling you that you're not a skank. As long as you know it and are a good mom like you say you are, than that's all the matters
Why would you have sex at a early age? where were your parents? You don't realize it now but you are missing out on the best years of your life, trying to play house. It's good you are still getting your education at home but just imagine if you were in school socializing with friends being a young teen ins tend of being a young mother, an you make it sound all peachy and you know it's not. it's very hard, and you need to have some kind of job because I know that was extra burden on your parents. that was a stupid mistake.
I'm 19 and i'm due to have a baby... and i'm seriously freaking out... is it as hyped as it is?? I mean da whole birthin process??
No you're not a skank.Being a mom is one of the most wonderful thing that can happen to a lady.Your baby will grow up to love u and someday your baby will help u do the house work or babysit if youre planning to have some more kids in the future.Carry on doing what youre doing now u will be proud of yourself somedays and if theres any question, type in help for young mothers on the web and theres heaps of information there for u.
I don't think that asking perfect strangers this question is going to get you the answer you are looking for. None of us know you. Besides, what does anyone's opinion matter? However, I can say that you used bad judgement when you decided to have unprotected sex at, what 13 or 14? I did the same thing when I was 15. That doesn't make you a bad person though, just one who has a lot of hard work, both as a student and a mother, ahead of you. Good luck and use better judgements when doing things that can change your life so drastically. Make the best of your life because it's not over, of course. One step at a time.
You are clearly seeking validation - that is, someone to tell you that you are ok, that you are not stupid, that you are not a skank. Please try to find a group that helps young mothers, so that you can talk to other people in your situation.
No, My 14 year old son got his 15 year old girlfriend pregnant
She is 3 months along and we just found out yesterday. We are trying to steer them to adoption. Any choice is a hard one
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