My son is 4 months old.?

my son is four months old. How old do you think my son should be before I have my 2nd child.

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It is really up to you. My brother and I are 2 and 1/2 years apart, and we have always gotten along great. My daughters are 6 years apart, and this works for me. It is nice having a 9 year old to watch the 3 year old so I can have a shower. They also play really nicely together. Everybody has their own perfect amount of time, it is a very individual decision.
that's basically your choice, I waited two years between mine, but my sitser has kids that are 11 months apart
2 years old or potty trained. You want to give birth and potty train at the same time but boys are generally slower for P.T. so you can wait until new baby is on a schedule.
its all up to you, my mom waited till I was 8 to have her 2nd child, personally this is too long between kids, I want my kids to go to school together so they are closer than my brother and I were. ME, I have a 2 year old an dmy husband and I decided to go ahead and have another one and I'm due in September, my son will be almost 3. We were going to originally wait till he was 4, but he does really good with other babies so we decided to go ahead and have another one. Good luck!
This is entirely up to you. I have a sister-in-law who had her three boys a year apart (one was actually about 11 months). Anyway, your decision should include your health, finances, and willingness to possibly have 2 in diapers at the same time. Personally, we waited three years for our second (that was a little too long), and then we had a surprise package 6 years later. I would vote for a year to two years difference in their birthdays.
i fell pregnant with my second son when my eldest was just 9 months and it was a complete surprise to me as i had a coil. now that he is here i must say that it has been such hard work but it is so nice to see them playing together. in the beginning my eldest was real jealous. if you have your family nearby to help then fill your boots whenever your ready. preferably i would wait until your child is 1 and a half before trying so you can enjoy your 1st baby and give the attention they deserve
thats up to you and what you can handle at the time
I'd say when you ar ready to take on that responsibility. Maybe two or three years apart? That way they can still be involved in things together instead of being so far apart that they get on each others nerves. my sister and I were five years apart and she used to irritate me!
Physically, your body needs at least a year to be really ready. After that, it's your choice.
Well,if you had a cesarious the doctor will advise you to wait at least 1 year.My baby was born with natural birth & i was pregnant again when she was only 8 months.It`s nice to have a 2nd baby so fast but consider that you will need a lot of energy to take care of the first 1 with that big belly!For example she just started walking and being very active,sometimes i just need help...
I think 3 would be the perfect age.
It really depends on when you are ready to handle another. I got pregnant with my 2nd when my first born was 9 months old. They are 17 months apart and it works for my family. You just need to decide what works for your family

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