Parent-child relationship?

My mother was the younger sibling of two (she have an older sister 6 years elder than her) and i find she gives my younger sister the preferential treatment (shes 5 and 1/2 years younger than me) despite her continued denials of this. i be wondering if perhaps this is some sort of subconscious entry. whenever we (my sis and i) get contained by an argument she always back her up, and im always at blemish, even if she did something wrong. my mother and her older sis never have a good relationship, and my sis and i dont similar to each other terribly much either. is it possible that subconsciously she give my sis the preferential treatment because of her realtionship with her sister? (i know she doesnt flat-out prefer her over me, i dont regard she realizes it when she does it.)

Answers:    Yes, she might be subconsciously favoring your younger sister but it might not be just because of you mom's bad relationship next to her own sister. It might be just because your sister is so much younger than you and your mom automatically expects you to be the more responsible one and to not get hold of into fights near your sister. As a first child, you will always get a bigger responsibility while your sister might be treated with a lighter paw just because she is considered young at heart and immature. Maybe if you treat your sister better, it will oblige your mom appreciate your effort and present you the right more often. I'm not dictum start liking your sister (although I'm sure you don't really can`t bear her), just exercise some more control and do not treat her badly out of spite. When you grow up, you might be surprised what a apposite friend your sister can be!
you should talk to her going on for it...tell her how you be aware of...

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