I need adult advice??Please dont laugh its serious!?
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ahhhhh hahahahahha! who's idiotic idea was it to put candels in the vehicle. dumb azz!
LOL sorry. Fess up and take your medicene.
Either take it to the mechanic and pay for it out of your own money, or drop it off somewhere and tell your parents that it must have been stolen.
But the best advice I can give is to TELL THEM WHAT HAPPENED. Even if you leave out the part about you losing your virginity, they do need to know what happened to the car.
EDIT: Then have it fixed. Not that hard.
And if that was your first time having sex, all girls think they are pregnant thier first time, all of them. Dont stress, it will make your period come late and then you will really freak out (like I did). Although you could get pregnant, chances are that you are not and if you stress you will only make it worse on yourself.
just tell your parents what happened not the sex part but you know what i mean
what is the question?
Dahling! Goodness gracious me!
Well there's nothing much you can do but to tell your daddy...
Give him the puppy dog face.. works with my dad and brothers like a charm
Well, just discuss it with the parents but you don't have to say you were about to do it in their car. They would probably never let you use it again.
You in big trouble gal..
come clean to your oldies you can't get out of that one
I am sorry, I had to laugh. Look, if you are going through all that to lose your virginity, you are too young to have sex. Just tell your parents what happened (but instead of telling them you were having sex, tell them you were having a candle light dinner.)
Well considering what you were doing, you probably got your just desserts. The best thing to do is to tell your father what happened. There's no sense in telling a lie because you'll only get into more trouble. If you were going to do what you did, couldn't you have found a place more romantic than the back seat of a car?
Get a job, repair the damages, and pay the consequences of what you've done.
the only thing i can say is you have to tell your parents because if you dont then its gonna make it worst!! i know so! it dont sound good at the time but you dont want to know what will happen if you dont tell them
You did the crime... you have to do the time. Tell your parents what you did. Good luck!
u gotta fess up. maybe if you come clean they wont be so harsh
oh dear. well it all depends on when your parents are back. and if you have enough money to fix the damages. erm..i think it would be wise though to own up, if you tell them then say that you will 100% pay for the damages, then im sure they will laugh it off, i mean c'mon it is funny when you look at the funny side of it. im sure they will laugh too when you own up and tell them you will pay for it all, perhaps you could also offer for them to use your car till theres is fixed. im presuming you are old enough to have sex if you can drive, so they shouldnt go off on one too much hun, good luck, please keep us updated, xxx
edit...if you can afford to do it and before they come home, then dont say a word hun, i know i wouldnt. lol
the best thing to do is be honest and dont lie about it and i hate to say it but its your place to have the car fixed and just for futher ideas dont use candles in a car not a great idea specialy if ur going to be doing that
somtimes there are things that we do that we just never tell our parents. sometimes there are things that our parents really don't want to know about.
as a parent i can tell you that i probably wouldn't want to know about this.
so, if you can fix the dent and the backseat, then go for it and "mum's the word".
if not, then come clean.
simple.
as for being scared.why would you not use birth control?? maybe you aren't as mature as you think you are.
from now on.use birth control please!
take care.
OMG how do tell you parents that one.? hahaha that's hilarous..so what kind of advise do you need?
I would say you should be honest. They usually find out anyway. Hopefully, if your parents love you, and I would assume they do, they will forgive you. It may not be quick and painless, but neither would the guilt of hiding it.
Oh... and for the lack of a condom, how long ago was this? Is it possible to try a morning after pill? They are now sold without perscription. I am not saying you should or should not do this; I am just giving you possible options.
Goodluck!
So you took there car with out permission, and your 18, ya know what that's called Hun, STEALING. I am sorry but you should be stressed, how is it not grand theft just because it's your parents who are the victim. It's time you grew up, don't treat sex like some Disney movie fairytale, it's serious. You made the choices now you must face the music. The best thing you could do now is come clean, ABOUT EVERYTHING. Face what's coming to you. I don't know what i would do if you were my daughter, however I'd have a long talk with my husband, possibly about having your 18 year old bottom looking for a new place to live.
Sorry it's not what you want to hear, but it's what has to be said.
Good Luck
That Sucks! Just sit your parents down and explain to them that you and your boyfriend were trying to have a nice romantic evening and you made a big mistake. Make sure you let them know that you are sincerely sorry and you will do anything to gain their trust back. Then pay for the damages.
I really don't think you're as mature as you say you are. Your're still not able to control your instincts, and let reason be first. Your don't need to lie here. Just tell your parents general facts --needed the car, took it, crashed it. It was an accident.
Your parents are going to be more worried about the fact that you didn't use a condom.Tell them that first and they won't be as worried about the car.
lol - youll remeber that
Wait..you said "we are mature" and "we did not use a condom" in the same sentence. Which is it?
Haha. That's hilarious. I'm sorry.
The thing you need to do is tell the honest truth. I was never good with lying myself. I would lie, and if I was lucky, I would get away with it. Yet, it would eat at me until I came out with the truth. Lying is no fun.
And if you're mature, you would have known to put the effin car in park. Use a condom and birth control. You're one of those people who have sex, end up pregnant, and get an abortion, aren't you?
Hopefully you're not pregnant.
However, you need to make sure that you're more mature and ready the next time you have sex. "Having everything perfect" does not make it "perfect" in itself. You are taking a chance of huge consequences, and you need to realize that before you spread your legs, miss eighteen year old!
Oh man, pretty funny stuff! That's some good lovin' gone bad! Ok you're probably too young to know that song. Anyways, I'd be stressing too if I were you. That was a very immature thing to do, every aspect of it - taking the car, drinking, sex with no protection, candles in the car, no parking brake on..yep you went right down the list. You should've stopped and robbed a liquor store on the way home. just kidding. i'm giving you a hard time cuz I remember what it was like to be young and make mistakes and deal with the consequences. Luckily in your case no one got hurt and your intentions were not bad.
You have to tell your parents you took the car obviously. You don't have to tell them what you did in the car, but they'll put two and two together. Make it a top priority to meet your financial obligations and get this behind you ASAP honey! You're parents will be mad, probably for a while, but they'll get over it. One day you'll be looking back on this and laughing your @ss off.
As far as the protection goes, please always use it. Next time you decide not to, remember how frantic you are right now. You don't want to feel this way again, do you? Don't stress too much til you miss a period ok? Deal with one thing at a time.
Ok first breathe don't panic. Now get the car fixed and tell your parents if they see that you took the intuitive and fixed the car and came clean they may go a bit easier on you..And I think we all learned candles in cars not a good idea.
Oh, boy. I suggest taking the "morning after pill" ASAP.
Then, fess up the BASICS of the situation (with Bobby, kissing, no parking break) to your parents. No need to spill the virginity 411. Ever.
That is an admirable teenager move! :)
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. u could be pregnant or have an STD AND your parents are gonna maim you. you deserve it fool. ps you are immature otherwise your funny little event would not have happened
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