Did i go about this situation wrong?? if so what should i have done?
was i wrong to go
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I think you did fine. You might want to look for a chance in the near future to make up the lost time with your mom, just to smooth things over.
Leaving a situation you are unhappy with is a pretty good way to keep it from getting ugly. People don't seem to like it when somebody leaves like that, but she would have liked it a lot less if there had been an escalation of events.
I dont' think so. I think you are perfectly right in what you are feeling. And, I applaud you for sticking up for yourself!
you DID do the right thing, if she hurt you you have no right to stay there although, you should call her talk it over and maybe schedule some sort of time where you and your mom can do something together (like tea at a local hotel or something talk it through and she will probally feel as bad as you did)
maybe you wasnt wrong to feel that way , but maybe your mom just wanted to have time with the 3 ppl that meant the most to her! also maybe she thought that if she told you he was coming you wouldnt have went at all . did you explain what you said on here to your mom ? maybe next time it should just be you and your mom , no fiance or boyfriend!
No you weren't wrong, you had every reason to be upset. Your mom should have understood you wanted time with her and not her and her b/f. Your feelings should have been considerd before hand one cuz your prego and two bacause you're her daughter. dont feel bad you have every reason to be upset, she should apologize to you. It's good that you stood up for your self dont feel bad for it. Congratulations on the baby!
I think you are just feeling overwhelmed with seeing that your mom has someone new in her life. Being pregnant that you are , you can also be emotional. We do have a choice of who we want to hang around . But maybe you should understand that your mother is just making an effort for you to get to know him better. Tell your mother how you feel and tell her you want to spend time with her. Then you can make a compromise by spending time with the two of them as well . Most pregnant women feel helpless and feel that they should be given more attention . Be honest with your mom but also learn to compromise.
she wants to important people in her life to meet and get along. I understand you are upset but you did not need to leave
I feel your mother should have been more open with you and let you know she was not planning on making dinner until 7 because of her boy friend.
You need to have a discussion with your mother and let her know that you'd really like to have a weekend where you could spend one-on-one time with just her. Then she should tell her boy friend NOT to show up for that one weekend - I'm sure he will understand.
I agree, it is her house and she can invite anyone she wants over but when the plans only included you, your fiance and her - then she should NOT have invited her boy friend.
Sticky situation - but it's not really difficult to solve - there just must be agreements on both sides as to who all is invited on the weekends. If you want a one-on-one with her - then she must respect that and not have her boy friend there at the same time. If you want a weekend with her and him (so you can get to know him, depending on how serious she is) then that's Ok too.
No i think you are absolutly right. She probably just wanted to see if you were lactating, bc her bf is in to milky mothers. She wanted you to let him drink from you suptle nipples. Just ask
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