A question from a daughter about my mom. mom answers only!?
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Sounds to me like your mother is letting her own insecurities interfere with her relationship with you.
Is it possible that she is reliving something from her past through you?
I'm starting to realize something about my own parenting..when I get angry at my daughter for something, alot of the time is it something that was traumatizing for me when I was a child.
Hope this helps a little.
your mom dont want you to get caught up in just one guy she feels better if your friends are mostly girls it sounds like she just want you to be more outgoing and have a bunch of friends that you can talk to
but a lot of friends can mean a lot of trouble say that and see how she respond your mom dont try to hurt your feelings she just want to know where your head is like if you are depressed or a loner, or shy something like that she just dont know how to tell you in exact words me on the other hand im glad my kids have friends but i dont want them to have too many I like to meet all of them because like i say too many friends mean trouble.
your mom does it see you happy she wants you to have friends. but she may not know thatshe is hurting you. my mom does it to! i would tell her. i moved out like 6 years ago and my mom still does that even though i have a family of my own now! but moms are strainge that way.
although she may not be going about it in a way that you like, it sounds to me like she is just concerned about you and wants you to be happy and have girl friends to hang out with and do things with, tell her how it makes you feel, shes your mom you should try to open up to her more and maybe she might lay off a bit. GOOD LUCK and remember parents are only human they make mistakes too!
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