Single mum bored at home with 4 month old?
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How about finding a group of friends who are already mothers. Then you wouldn't feel so lonely.
deal with it will get better
is there nobody to look after the baby for a few hours a week so you can go see your friends talk to your health visitor i know they can arrange for your child to go into a day nursery for a couple of hours a week so you can get some rest this would be free of charge
just cos you have a baby dosnt mean you cant go out and see your friends i babysitt for a mate and she often has her mates round most of them have childeren too that they bring round, the girl i babysit for has a more active social life than me lol.
you should have used protection, but since you did have the baby, love it cherish it and raise it so it is successful in life.
I think faith has no right to tell you that you should have used protection, that was not what you was asking , you sound like you are better off with out your ex if he is a waster , when you go to your baby groups a few times a week are there not any single parents around your age that you could arrange to meet up with , my misses has a five year old and she said that he felt preety much the same when she had her , the post natal depresion thing , keep your chin up girl , why not go and meet some of your mates in the day or as other people said take baby for a stroll in the buggy which you may find good for you to as it will give you time to clear your head
best of luck X
You mean postpartum depression, It happens to a lot of women after giving birth whether they are single or married just relax and think how much you love your baby. Having one child is not easy but having more just makes it even more difficult. Try to find make friends who are on the same level as you as a parent it will make you feel a lot better. As your baby grow and go to day care it will seem a lot easier. Good luck
Don't worry yourself about the baby dad.
If you have postpartum depression you need to talk to someone about getting help because that is not fun and depending on how severe it can even be dangerous to your baby, don't feel bad a lot of woman get it.
The first few months are a little boring because you want to play with your baby but they don't respond much but it gets funner and funner, promise!
Go to college so you can give your baby a good future and be a beast when it comes to protecting her, especially from losers.
Make a routine, get up feed her change her, play with her, read to her, sing to her, exercises while she is taking a nap, go to the park or a walk, go visit a friend,but whatever you do spend a lot of time with her or him, especially if you are going to be gone a lot next year. Being a Mom is not ease but is the best thing you can do... raising a wonderful human being!
have raised 3 kids of my own, not easy. get a part time job.and take walks for depression besides its good for u. if u can't get out side then go to a mall before the stores open. and yes girlfriend, it will get easier.go to a park with the baby, who knows, maybe u will fill the luv of your life. u have lots of time to find the right one,and not all men do drugs. u made the right choice. good luck granny
unless you live in the middle of nowher there are toddler groups on every corner. you dont need a todderler to go i went with a baby and made loads of friends... the trick is to keep as busy as possible. ask your health visitor for details of groups and go to all of them.. get out of the house every day . a walk in the park will lift your mood as will the walk. good luck it ,does get better,.this is the best time of having a baby. dont waste a single minute of it because it is gone in a flash.join a church it helped me.
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