How can i help my daughter realize that her bf is not a good looking guy?
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sounds like she is young, so more than likely this is not the guy she will marry and have children with. besides aren't you more concerned about her happiness then whether or not her man is good looking enough? what is important is that he care for her, treat her with respect and make her feel like the happiest woman in the world. i think she would be hurt if you told her her man was ugly, she may already know he is no Adonis but if he makes her happy and she is willing to look past it, you should too.
Thats a little vein. No matter what your grandbaby looks like they will be beautiful in your eyes.
You're thinking about yourself and your own interests before your daughter's. You shouldn't do that.
As much as we might like to we cannot choose our children's mates. What you should be asking yourself is, "Is he good to my daughter?" Looks truly are only skin deep.
Would you rather her be with her ugly boyfriend that she is happy with or a hot guy that she might not be happy with?? Your grandchildren will be beautiful no matter who she has kids with and if your that worried about looks there is another issue you need to address with yourself. Let her be happy, he is obviously attractive to her.
you are so superficial.it doesn't matter what he looks like as long as he truly cares for her...maybe he could teach you a lesson or two
That is very vain indeed. Didn't you ever hear that ugly parents make beautiful babies. Why are you worrying about that. He could have been a really bad guy with wonderful good looks, would that make you happier. I don't like to be rude but I think you are making a big mistake, let your daughter marry whomever she loves, not just a good looking specimen.
Wow, that's the most shallow thing I've ever heard a mother say. Does he treat her right? Does he abuse her? Does he hit her? If it's "yes, no, no," then why the hell do you care? Your daughter is happy with the dude she's with, why can't you be happy for him? I'm glad your daughter didn't turn out like you.
Don't be so shallow - beauty is in the eye of the beholder so maybe she thinks he's gorgeous - your grandchildren will be beautiful to you no matter what they look like. Besides there's no guarantee they'll be goodlooking even if both parents are stunners - nature can be cruel like that!!
So it's all about looks
how would you know your grandchildren wont be good looking. Sometimes you get attractive parents with unattractive children. you're being pretty superficial. I would say that the most important thing would be that this guy loves your daughter and treats her well. And that maybe he would be a good father and husband to her one day. Would you prefer a good looking guy that was an asshole and treated her like crap? Think about it. She loves him for a reason.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder you can not pick for any one else! You have to settle for what she want,s and love your grand children no matter what ,and who say,s they will look like him anyway!
Looks are not everything. Give it up. If she's happy and he treats her well then nothing else should matter.
How horrible is that to say? You should be more concerned that your daughter had found someone she loves and concentrate if he treats her right or not. As for the looks of someone or the what your grandchild may look like is a matter of opinion. To me I think that the baby Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes had is not that cute of a baby and they have been voted gorgeous people. So, it shouldn't matter what the parents look like it's how much they love each other and how they treat one another. I hope that you didn't say this to your daughter? Good luck to you and I hope that you have a change of heart.
So he may not be prince charming to you, but she may think he is the hottest thing in the world. Grandbabies? Have you ever seen an ugly baby? I haven't. Besides, your daughters' genes will be in the mix also, so do not worry about that. And I am sure you would not love them any less if they were, as you say, not good looking. Shouldn't you be hoping to have healthy and happy grandchildren more than this absurd hope? To tell you the truth, that really is none of your business, you should be more concerned on how well he treats your daughter and what kind of Daddy he would be, not something as ridiculous as looks, geez lady!
Nothing you can do, she will end up resentling you for being so shallow if you say anything. What would you rather have? You daughter dating an ugly guy that treats her like a queen or a good looking guy that beats her everynight and walks all over her? Anyways, the ugliest kids I've ever seen have come from 2 good looking parents.
why are looks that important. if she is happy with him you should leave her alone. i think you are in need of serious help. im sorry that looks are that important to you.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe your daughter thinks he's the best looking guy in the world. Looks should be the least of your worries. As long as he loves her and is good to her, what should the looks matter? Would you rather her have someone abusive that's great looking? All children are beautiful as they are a gift from God!! I think you need a good strong dose of reality!
That is so low! If my mom ever said anything like that to me I doubt i woudl talk to her for a while adn if i did thre would be alot of yelling! Thats rude and who cares what they look like if your daughters happy let her be happy! Would you rather have beautiful gradkids or a happy daughter?
I'm sorry, but that is terrible! How's his heart? I bet better than yours!
Maybe you'll be lucky and your daughter will be infertile or choose not to have children. Then you won't have to endure the shame of having grandchildren who don't measure up to your 'high' standards of beauty.
Unbelievable.
Well, what if a beautiful boyfriend dumped HER for being ugly? What would you say then?
Beauty is in the beholder's eye.
I'm sorry that looks is all that matters to you!!!
I have nothing nice to say. sorry..
Grow up
Looks shouldnt be the issue here, you should be happy for her that she's happy with the guy she's with. Looks aren't everything. You should be happy that he doesn't abusive too her. Why are looks so important? Are you dating him or is it your daughter? To me you seem just a little bit rude to be judging him on his looks. You shouldn't do that. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder not just what a person looks like on the outside.
That seems selfish, don't you think so? If your daughter really likes him, he treats you and her nicely, and they seem to have a good time together, what's the problem? You just want good - looking grandchildren, but there isn't a 100% chance they'll turn out like their father. And if you want to tell your daughter that her boyfriend isn't that cute, she'll never forgive you.
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It sounds like your daughter is a very mature, well adjusted young woman and has the ability to look past the outside and see a person for who they really are inside. Your daughter is the one going out with this guy not you and she obviously thinks this guy is special and treats her right. I think maybe you need to get a life and start a hobby or something and fulfil your own life instead of worrying about whether you will have supermodel grandkids or not. I think you need to watch the DVD Shallow Hal and really pay attention to the message behind it!!
What the Hell does it matter. If he treats her good then that's all that counts. If she thinks he looks good that's all that matters, after all beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
GOOD GRIEF LADY ITS NOT ABOUT YOU!! ITS ABOUT HER..WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE IF YOUR MOTHER TOLD YOU THAT THE MAN YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH AND HAD CHILDREN WITH THAT HE WASN'T GOOD LOOKING? YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN HURT I AM SURE SO WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT TO YOUR OWN DAUGHTER? YOU ARE SO SELFISH!!!! ITS NOT ABOUT YOU!!!!
you shalow ****** if the girl is in love with the guy let them be dont be so vein. boo you!!!
You are very shallow and selfish. Instead of thinking of your daughter's happiness, you are thinking of yours. What kind of mother are you?
you are soo selfish.
its not even you who is going
to get married with him anyway.
so why bother if she really loves him?
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