I'm not married I have two children age 16 and 20 from previoous relationship and pregnant what to do?
Answer:
There are several options. One that you might like is an open adoption. In an open adoption, the child knows that you are their biological parent, but lives with the adoptive parent. You still get to see the child and have a relationship with them, and the adoptive parents get the benefit of having a child to raise of their own. This site can tell more about this option. http://www.adoptionquotes.org/
Another option is a traditional, closed adoption. More info here:
http://www.adoptionhelp.org/
legal aspects of both
http://www.dle-law.com/adption1.htm...
You could talk with a friend or family member that may have interest in raising the child.
You could seek the abortion as well, just remember that you may have a hard time dealing with the emotional issues of abortion. Some info about all aspects of the procedure can be found here.
http://www.religioustolerance.org/aborti...
Of course, you could always choose to raise the child as you did your other children. Here is a site with support and resources for ssingle moms
http://www.singlemom.com/
The most important thing you must consider is what is best for your situation financially and emotionally. Talking with a trusted friend or counselor can help you to decide which option is best for you. I don't think you should get married just because of pregnancy. Remember, there are many unmarried couples and single mothers that make great parents, and there is no law that requires one to be married. Whatever choice you make, just be sure that you can handle the consequences.
i think what you really need to do at this point is to get nearer to God. I as in someone giving her life to christ because He alone can right what has gone wrong in your life.Actually, the mistake has been made and as you know that two wrong can nerver make a right. When you come to christ He will show you the way and the right partner to get married to.
ask him to marry you
hindsight is 20-20 . obviously, you didn't learn the lesson of the difficulty of single motherhood from the first two boys, no reason to assume you would do anything different at this late date .. however, making the unborn child the scapegoat for your lack of self discipline is hardly fair, is it? Accept the responsibility for your actions and stop choosing guys with no ability to commit. Sex is a poor foundation for any relationship. I suggest you have your tubes tied after this pregnancy if you dont want to bring any more children into an unmarried relationship.
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