Should I permit my oldest son keep watch on my kids?
I'm renting a small apartment immediately, and saving up for a bigger home. This requires me to work 2 job. My first job is from 9-5, my second employment will be from 7-11:30 as a bartender.
I do not have any time to lug care of my four kids. I divorced my husband three years ago and he is nowhere to be found. My step mother died, (I be adopted, I'm 37 now), so she can't filch care of my kids, she used to until 6 moths beforehand her death. Now I don't know what to do.
Should I tolerate my my 15 year old son, go for a dip, wash, nurture, watch my kids?
The hour break I own inbetween is used for resting, I'm absolutely exhausted.
Answers: i would articulate on short time basis this would be OK. but look at the big picture - what are you going to do when arts school starts - quit your 2ND job? he won't enjoy time to even do his homework! i think you should use him for a couple of weeks and find a friend you trust to babysit or look for a 2nd errand that doesn't have such overdue hours.
good luck!
If your son is comfrotable, and so are you, afterwards I say, GO FOR IT:)
~good luck, I'm sure your little babies will be merely fine!~
its o.k. but not fair to him. you are vitally asking him to work two jobs also.
He is dated enough, but you are the individual one who can decide this. Is he responsible plenty and willing to do this? I apprehend you want a house, but are there other option for you, such as a habitat for humanity house or public housing that you pay for on a sliding degree? Homeownership is not all it's cracked up to be. There is plentifully of work and expense that goes into maintain a home.
if you feel approaching your son is mature satisfactory to babysit, then by adjectives means you should agree to him! it will make him be aware of like he is contributing to the ethnic group and you will save on babysitting. the 10 year olds and 7 year weak are old adequate to do most things on their own with a few reminders. the 4 year dated will require a little more support, but i'm sure he can handle it. virtuous luck, and i hope you find a little break soon!
Well do you construe he is respondsible enough? Can he cook? Is he pious with children? I would ask him if wishes to and if he thinks he can touch it. And if he thinks he can consequently see how the first week goes and see if he still requests to or not. Or maybe tolerate him have a friend over if he doesn't devise he can handle it by himself. Thats what I used to do when I babysat. But come together this friend first and make sure they will in truth watch the kids and not ignor them.
i would my oldest con started a babysitting at the age of i12 so I SAY GO 4 IT!!!!
is he responsible and trustworthy if so after i guess its okay?
Oh so you have 4 kids but are trying to gain your 15 year to take on your responsibility for three of them. He isnt gonna want to survey kids 24/7 they arent his kids and he will soon rebel. And I wouldnt blame him. By the time you find home he wouldnt be able to jump do anything. I think you requirement to find someone to watch them part of a set of the time at least.
Do you remember one 15 - would you have required to watch kids from 9 am to 11:30 at dark all summer long?
If he's responsible later yes. But it also sounds like he won't enjoy a life adjectives summer which seems a bit unwarranted to him. That's a lot to bring on for someone that age. It's hard plenty as a parent let alone a pubescent boy. How does he feel going on for it?
if you think your 15 yr infirm is old plenty and responsibile and mature adequate to babysit his siblings. and have your 15 yr elderly prove to you he mature and responsibile plenty to babysit.
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