I gave my daughter up for adoption is there a way to break the adoption?
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Most states have a time frame, parents can change their minds within 6 or 12 months... I would talk to a lawyer, find out what steps you need to take, and file the paperwork needed to go to court. You do need to realize that this will not be an easy fight. As far as the court can tell, you gave your daughter away once, so you'll have to prove that you aren't going to do that again. It will be hard, battling for your rights, but it can be done IF THE TIME FRAME HAS NOT EXPIRED. There are laws in place, you need to find out which ones apply to your state and situation. Good luck.
Yes, you can do it. I wish you luck.. Get a lawyer.. But also, think of how you are hurting your daughter. She was used to you, you gave her away. Now she is used to the new parents, and knows them. And you want to take that away. Also, think of how they will feel about it all. That is going ot HURT them so bad.
wow.
parents need to think before they act.
and realize your actions have consequences for many people besides yourself.
i would not look for answers here. go to a lawyer in your state; talk w/ the state legislature.
If its only been that short of time u should be able to get her back but u having alot of proving to the courts that u can care for her
She's also the little angel of her adoptive parents who probably are extremely attached to her. Just food for thought. You might be able to conceive again but the adoptive parents may have been trying for years and years to get a child. If the birthmother tried to take back my child, they would have one helluva court battle.
If you've already had your parental rights terminated, there is nothing you can do. I'm so sorry to hear how hard this is for you. Maybe you can ask the adoptive family for visitations and the opportunity to still be part of her life. Surely they can understand or imagine how you are feeling. They might be sensative to it. I hope you can find peace and happiness in this somehow. Give yourself a lot of credit though. You say you feel like this was a stupid decision, but to me, I can see you were trying to do what was the best thing for her. That takes untold amounts of love and selflessness. Hopefully your daughter grows up knowing that you love her enough to have made such a great sacrifice. Good Luck!
So 1st you can't take care of her, now you can, what if you get her back and decide you can't take care of her anymore, are you going to put her up for adoption again? I would leave things alone, this is a child you are talking about, not an animal. Make sure you are on birth control as well.
You have one year to change your mind, it is the law, and the agency is putting you off for this time limit to be expired, your time is now, get a lawyer and have it reversed, you only have two months left.
You have got to get a lawyer and talk to them.
They will tell you everything you need to know. If you have the money to fight for her then GET THE LAWYER and find out what is applicable in your situation/location everything...
I'm so sorry for you. I know this has to hurt.
I know you think of your daughter importantly since you chose to give her up for adoption, please think of her still and let her remain settled in her new home. Ask the family about visiting rights, perhaps something can be worked out if you are kind and flexible.
Then save some money, make sure you life is straightened out, make sure you are in a good permanent - marriage - relatioship and start over. You will never replace your first child, but you can use that experience to do things better the second time.
Alternatively, you may choose to adopt, and give the gift of love to another child who really needs you.
In the US if the adoption is final then that's it. She is not your daughter anymore. It would be like trying to get custody of your neighbors kid. Your daughter is in a better situation, you did the right thing. Ya it hurts, but it's not about your feelings it's about your daughter's best interest.
I am sorry for your pain, I suggest you move on
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