Help! I came home and found my babysitter walking around in lingerie with booty cheeks out!!?
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I hate to type this answer because I don't want to start trouble, but are you sure she wasn't expecting your husband to come home first? Maybe she has a crush on him. There is no way that person wanted an opinion from a 2 month old and a 10 year old. What answer could she possible hope to gain from children so young. My husband was outraged when I read this to him. He said that he can't believe the response from the husband. He said that firing her is not an option, it is the only answer. Is the 10 year old a girl or a boy? If it's a boy maybe the authorities need to be contacted to keep her from being around other young boys. This behavior is very disturbing. If the babysitter is a minor, I would call her parents. If it's an adult.I repeat.call the authorities. If the 10 year old is a girl what kind of example is the babysitter setting for her. She said she brought this for her boyfriend...not her husband. I would also sit my 10 year old down and ask them if there is anything going on in their life that they would like to talk to me about. Be cautious and kind of relaxed about it so that they are open to giving you information if they have any..Sorry the answer is so long. I am just really concerned.
WAS YOUR HUSBAND HOME?
DON'T ACCEPTABLE with this person, need to complain for it... and are u okay when ur kids are seeing the babysitter's lingerie? i werent if i was you.
that sounds like a classic case of losing trust, personally i would feel honoured that the baby sitter would feel so in touch with your children as to try and seek their opinion, although, you should keep her away from your husband...
If your children are females its a little different but in all reality it is not normal.. If she wanted someones opinion then she should have asked someone her age or older.
I would be worried about your husband..It sounds kinda crazy he would allow it
Time for a new baysitter.
This is probably some form of abuse. I would get rid of her and talk to a lawyer.
RUKIDDING?! No it is NOT acceptable! You should have been kind enough to let her put on her clothes before you threw her out of your house, but I could understand if you threw her out and threw her clothes out after her. She's obviously not very responsible! I'm also wondering about your husband's response considering she was wearing that thing in your house.
Uh, no. I do not think that is acceptable! Asking children the opinion about lingerie? There is something wrong with that! I think I would be seeking a new babysitter.
I would give her one more chance but I would also tell her no more, that it was not proper to show your children that. and If she does anything like this again she will have to find another job. good luck. and for your husband tell him how you feel about it. and he should feel the same way good luck. I would of done the same thing if I came home to that.
kick her @ss uh I mean fire her *** who knows what else she might be doing in front of the kids or TO them, the pervert b!tch that's really a lame excuse she gave you...if you keep her on you're crazy
No! Not acceptable... her parents need to be involved, that's just inappropriate.
It is called indecent exposure. I would fire her so fast. How dare she put your children in that situation.What is wrong with people.
i think u should look for another babysitter. these days u cant trust anyone looking after your children and walking around in front of children while exposing yourself is a big deal. it makes an impression on them.
ABSOLUTELY NOT! She should not have exposed your kids to that (even though they've probably seen it on TV/Internet already). You should probably let her go as that was innapropriate.who asks a child's opinion on lingere. If she really was serious, wouldn't she have asked you instead:|
No its not acceptable at all I would get her as far away from home as possible what if that was your husband that had come home early and your 10 yrs. old child dose not need to be giving her no opinion I can't understand what was she thinking.
NO! Get rid of her A.S.A.P.! Here's why:
1. Your children are too young to to see blatant sexuality like that. (unless you want them to act that way, themselves)
2. your hubby most likely said not to worry about it because he thinks she's hot or is covering something up
3.I'm not buying the sitter's story: either she had someone in the house and didn't have time to change, she's molesting one or more of the children, or there's something going on between her and your husband.
I am interviewing a babysitter tonight, and this just scared the s**t out of me!
Hell no, I would fire her. It is NOT acceptable. Is she insane? Advice from children for lingerie?! Personally, I would of fired her on the spot and told my husband to shut up. If needed, a smack even.
your kids are to young for for an adult opinion...especial on the topic of lingerie..And is your husband stupid? If he was home at the time, he is real slack.
If you feel comfortable, with her around your kids then by all means let her stay (after a stern warning of course). But if you are not comfortable with her around your kids please let her leave....you will never be ok with her being being with your children alone.
All in all, you know in your heart you know what best for your kids,move to suite.
What does a 10 year old know about lingerie?
This is sooooooo totally unacceptable, that you can't even see acceptable from here! You would let a person whose judgment is this poor care for your kids?!? Never again. Your husband is insane. Why would she seek the opinion of prepubescents and toddlers about sex!? I didn't even see her and I can tell you how she looks--SLEAZY
I am sorry but you need to tell her to hit the high road, that is unacceptable, you do not walk around in front of children in revealing outfits, does your husband not watch the news or America's most wanted? If that was me in your case I would have fired the pants off of her and then took her to small claims court for doing such a stupid thing in front of my children and if she was a good baby setter she would have know better then putting on something like that and asking a child for there opinion, children shouldn't see stuff like that, and for you to even have to come on this website and ask for our opinion is stupid I am sorry if that is harsh but the well-being of your children is a stake and for you to be so stupid as to ask what to do?? What are you thinking? Do what a good parent would do and don't let your children be around that type of circumstance.
i wouldn't! who in there right mind would ask a childs opinion on lingerie?? i would let her go. and was your husband home at the time? i'm sorry but that is not acceptable. good luck to you hun!
Fire her, and report her to Child Protective Services or the law for indecency with minors.
Fire her NOW! She is gross. You don't want your kids alone with her do you? It's hard telling what else she does.
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