My friend is 13 and she is pregnet by a 22 year old what should ido?
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There isn't much you can do. No offence to you or your friend, but having sex at 13 is stupid and irresponsible. Maybe an abortion or giving the kid up for adoption would be best for her. Not to mention the sick *** TWENTY TWO year old who had sex with a 13 year old. That's pretty disgusting and if her parents get angry they can press charges against him and get him years and years in prison for statutory rape.
What can I say?
Every one makes their own bed.
I'd be more concerned about yourself if I were you...
Considering:
You cannot spell simple words like "hurt" and "pregnant" correctly.
Gee basketballchick, when I read your other questions, you were able to form intelligent sentences using perfect spelling and grammar! What happened that you suddenly turned "ghetto"? Could it be that this is make-believe?? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?
Inform the police immidiately. Your friend needs help but what the 22 year old did was an offence. I have a stepdaughter that age and if a 22 year old went anywhere near her, I would kill him.
The best thing to do is to go to an adult that you can trust. Maybe a parent or a teacher? This may not seem like a good idea but the longer your friend waits to get help the worse it will be. ANd that is against the law. Please! please go to an adult right away! Trust me you will be doing your friend a huge favor! Good luck!
Well, it's dangerous for someone that young to be pregnant. I would suggest an abortion. In some states, parents don't even have to be notified for an abortion for a minor.
Tell somebody it's illegal for himk to have sex with a girl whose 13
Tell the daddy to run away because they gonna lock his azz up.hahah.no but all you can do is be there for her she made it so she has to take on her responsibility now as a soon to be parent
Do her parents know? That's the first step.
A pregnancy at any age needs to be addressed by a doctor (or at least a midwife). Pregnancies have normal risks, but at that age, the risks are even greater. If you care about your friend, her parents need to know what's going on. And because statutory rape was involved, if you fail to inform her parents, you are an accessory to the crime after the fact.
Encourage her to talk to her parents, but if she doesn't, you must do so.
You need to tell your friend to go to her parents NOW. They are her parents and even though they might be mad at first, they will do what's best for her and help her. This is going to be a pretty messy thing for everyone involved, I'll tell you right now. The 22 year old guy should NEVER have had sex with her. But her parents have got to know.
If you have to...go to YOUR parents and see if they will talk to your friend's parents. This situation has to be dealt with as soon as possible.
I think it is best to tell someone you trust as it is illegal!
First thing is to call the police on the 22 year old before the evidence disappears and the case becomes more difficult. Also, do your best to comfort her and find some caring adults who will help her through this without being nasty or judgemental. They are out there. She needs two things right now: proper medical guidance and information from her doctor and the support of her family and friends.
What you should do is stay out of it. That is really, really, really, really bad. You cannot fix this, so don't even try. That guy will probably go to jail, and will have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life. Oh man, this is not good. You keep your nose clean, and if I was your mom I would not let you keep contact with that girl. I'm sorry if this is an answer you don't like, but that is my honest feeling about that.
Tell me that her parents are aware of this! If not then you have got to do something with your friend. She is WAY too young to be having a baby. My sister-in law had her baby at the age of 16 and she has been looking to her parents and sisters for help ever since. Good luck with that.
That's a really bad thing to happen. It doesn't really matter what feelings they may have between the two of them, its illegal and you should convince her to tell her parents and the police. 22 years old is old enough to know that sexual contact with a 13 year old is stupid. If you can't convince her to tell her parents, maybe you should tell yours. She may get mad at you for now, but in the long run, she'll realize that you really care about her and were looking out for her. She REALLY NEEDS TO REPORT IT!! Hopefully this guy is clean! Please, please talk to her. We need to get these scumbags off the streets. I hope that she'll listen to you and realize that she's really lucky to have a friend like you!
Call the police. Do it now. Do not pass "Go" and do not collect $200. Call the police. This is called statutory rape.
Just be there for her, be a shoulder for her to cry on if she does get hurt. A good friend is what she needs right now.
hi, Go and see a doctor, talk to her parents.
If this occured in the United States, that is illegal for him to have engaged in sexual relations with a minor. He needs to be reported to the police and her parents need to be told. She has to decide what she wants to do. Thirteen is way too young to become a mother. If she can't talk to her parents then perhaps someone at the church or a guidance counselor, or even a womans clinic.
i think you need to confide in an adult that you can trust.dealing with this alone would not be a good idea.if you talk to a counselor at school maybe they give you and your friend advice.she may even help her talk to her parents.continue to be there for your friend right now i know shes scared.and think about it..shes 13 and hes 22.do you really think hes gonna stick around??he should be arrested and he could.think about it..good luck and stay positive
WHAT!!!!the hell she doin havein sex any ways with a 22 [YEAR OLD MAN] any ways. if i were you i would just pray for her and hope she will realize what she has done!!!!! and i hope she doesn't throw her life away. yea like WILLIAM K said this is statuary RAPEEEEEEE. you need to find and adult. Because if this gets out to any body. His AZZ is goin to jail
Well, the good news for her is, this 22 year old guy can be shipped off to prison for statutory rape.
The bad news is, she is pregnant, and at her age, giving birth can be very risky.
No more sex for little girls.
Your friend needs to get to a doctor right away. Let the doctor worry about reporting the rape to the police (they are required by law to report it). Your main focus should be to get her to the doctor. The rest will take care of itself.
First you call the authorities and have this 22 year old arrested.
Your friend needs to make an appointment t with the doctor to start on prenatal vitamins. Contact an adoption agency and probably arrange to have a c-section
sorry about your friend ,but that was rape not sex call the police on him .and tell her family she will need them soon .if to chat again i am here..
You should really talk her into telling her parent's. There isn't much she can do if she waits any longer. She needs the HELP NOW! So please help your friend!! This shouldn't even be a subject talked about at that age. Enough said!!
try to convince her to go to an adult relative so she is not alone in this you are a good friend to be concerned but and adult in the picture can help
Well if the cops find out that is sagitory rape and the man that got her pregnant could go to jail. She should of been more careful because now her life is gunna get more complicated if she stays with the baby or not. She needs to talk to someone about that problem like her parents or maybe even a social worker or a nurse. The guy should of been more careful before being with her.
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