Teenage Punishment?
Answers: spanking, later again, I can't imagine the thought of spanking a 14 year hoary. Consider removing all her positions, and making her earn them support. If it's a no-go, then consider boot military camp.
let her be more independent
ok, so I hope you are kid... sounds like you are feed into her behavior so you are no better than she is! Thanks for the two points though!
Make her sleep in a little one bed...
Seems like she get it from you. Your a grown women go discuss this next to her instead of kids on here
positve reinforcement?
make her wear a bib?
diapers
tolerate her be around real babies for around an hour
Does she have a cell phone? If yes hold it away, No TV! Come straight home after school. If that doesnt do it, very well... that'll do it.
I find that mild corporal punishment works at just around any age, but that's me.
Sorry but I want to act similar to a baby now---I would kindness a nap during the day---lol! Omg I presume being spoon feed would be embarrassing ample (for extra embarrassment smooth do it when her friends are over).....Will she fit in a carseat?
Try to be positive so she requirements to grow up. Encouragement can go a long route.
EDIT: I just looked at your other posted question, who are you, one says you are 14 and want to plan a shindig, the other says you enjoy a 6 year old who wont jump on the toilet anymore. Quit fooling around on here!
I am from Michigan and just lately I seen on the word, where this teen have got surrounded by trouble in college, so his mom made him wear this sign she made saying "i made a discouraging decision and presently I am paying for it" or soemthing along them lines, and wear it on the side of a highway and pick up trash? I know that if my mom made me do that when I was a juvenile I'd probably pick up my act.
What is she doing explicitly making her "act approaching a baby?"
Maybe she act like one because she already feel like you treat her similar to one.
well, i regard you may be going alittle too far. i think that nearby are other ways to punish a child. i don't know the whole situation, but i meditate that if you do that you will push her away farther. i guess i would take away box, stereo, computer, and / or friends. and tell her its gone until she pulls herself together and grows up.
pocket away stuff that are really important to her. if within is a party she desires to go to speak about her that she for example has to jump one whole week acting resembling an adult and lay down rules...of what you meditate she needs to do, be more responsible...verbs the kitchen, get homework finished, etc. if she breaks the agreement basically once, then she can't stir to the party.
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You sound close to a baby....... show her by example.
During times of conflict: dispatch her to her room. If she is being unreasonable, let somebody know her so - but don't try to talk nearly it - upset teenagers are not rational. Let her know you will be thinking in the order of how you want to deal beside this, and you will talk just about it later. You are upset, too - don't come up next to a punishment in the fry of things.
During times of non-conflict, 14 yr olds can be remarkably mature and honest almost how ridiculous their behavior may have be when they are in a supportive and encouraging environment. A Starbucks together, a ride contained by the car -- consent to her pour out whatever's on her mind and try to just listen.
But most of adjectives remember: 14yr olds + hormones = sometimes acting like a babe!
take away adjectives privalages but DONT make her ride contained by a car form its not safe
when i be little (like 7, not 14) my dad used to threaten me with that, but he never in actuality did it! the threat of it was satisfactory to make me not exploit like that. i have an idea that that would be a little bit extreme! but it would be agreeable to know exactly HOW ur daughter is acting like a little one. that might make it easier to referee how well ur punishment would work
My mother would mock me when I'd do this as I get older. She'd really purely laugh surrounded by my face and it would shut me up or put together me stop behaving that method really quick. You own to find their weakness and most teenagers cannot take on mockery.
Hang on...when you say acting similar to a baby, what do you plan? If she's being snotty, acting emergent, not cleaning her room, etc. then I can't see how this enforcement would metamorphose anything.
I ask you for her sake to reconsider; if you want her to work like an developed, treat her like an full-size. Take away a priviledge, a cell phone, or something she values for a while or else give a chore to her workload.
Your daughter could just be going through a rough time. Put yourself contained by her shoes, remember how not-fun it was at times to be a teen, and don't humiliate your daughter to try to drive home a lesson. She'll resent you, and even if it appears to work, adjectives you're telling your daughter is: "In my eyes, you're still too young at heart to make choices, so only just do what I say regardless of how you touch."
Oh honey. Dont do that. She is trying to get attention. Thats adjectives. The more you treat her like that, the more she is going to do dumb things and deed out even more. My 14 year old son is going through HELL right presently. You would never even imagine what he does. You should be greatful resentment tantrums (puberty and peer pressure) are all your dealing beside. She could be out doing a lot worse. The more you REACT to her, the more she is going to do it. Try ignore her. Take away things.. empty her room if you enjoy to. Leave the basics. Bed, clothes, institution supplies. But remove everything else and let her EARN it spinal column with posative behavior. I hold "stripped" my sons room plenty of times and trust me. sitting in a blank unfilled room with a book.. no nap.. is a rude awakening for a teenager.
Good luck
Take away a privilege every time (for a set time of time). No cell phone, no TV/computer, etc. Only stuff a baby could do.
Whoa, how long hold you been surrounded by burn out? Time to take a vast breath, and a hot bath, Mom....
Don't cause the mistake of reinforcing her behavior. Time to model some adult behaviors.
May I suggest?
Look into the conservatory after school program. Normally they provide a snack, learned support and some peer interaction. The kids are released at 6. Cut you and her a break and enroll her in the program. Sounds resembling she could use some interaction with her peers anyway. And serious support doesn't hurt, either.
When arts school starts up contact the school counselor and describe her behaviors. Ask the counselor to see your daughter on a regular justification until she can modify her behaviors.
Ignore negative behaviors. Look at your daughter and see that contained by 4 years she's going to be headed out the door and into independent living. Respond to that personality.
Ask grandma or auntie or bff Jill to take daughter for a weekend and procure out of Dodge. Sleep, eat, and do what you want. Find your center, and hold onto it for dear energy.
You have 4 years vanished with your precious daughter. These years are crucial. When she finally walk out that door for the last time, how do you want that to dance?
Help her prepare for adulthood. It's work, it's fear-provoking, and it's fun....You'll be there for her when she wants you.
In my opinion, do what you read out you're going to do. If you tell your daughter one point and don't do it; she can't take you serious. Also, if she keep acting like a infant, put her over your knee and make available her a nice little bare bottom spanking (like 10 swats)...that'll be paid her act her age since individual spanked bare bottom is embarassing ample...Also, make her wear a diaper at darkness and during the day when she's at home...
DEAR MISS
PUT HER IN DIAPERS PUT HER ON A BABY BOTTLE
WHEN SHE GETS OUT OF LINE SPANK HER LITTLE
BOTTOM AND DO NOT LET HER HAVE HER WAY OK
THIS MIGHT WORK GIVE HER A BATH TOO WHEN HER
FRIENDS ARE OVER THAT WILL WAKE HER UP ONCE IT
GETS AROUND SCHOOL THEY WILL SAY LOOK AT
MOTHERS LITTLE BABY GIRL OK
TAKE CARE
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