11 year old son,9 year old daughter,7 year old daughter. Ma How do you love more?
Love 1st girl for pesonality
Love 2nd for her honesty.
But I love you guys equally.
The response was " Okay Ma what is the real answer"?
ROTF
Was I wrong
Answer:
No thats a geat answer. As kids we asked my mom who she liked best, and she would simply answer "I hate ya both the same" LOL
thats a great answer, you cant love one kid more than the other. my boyfriends mom always tells her kids (one boy, 2 girls and 1 granddaughter)
1 my fav. son
2 my fav, oldest daughter
3. my fav. youngest daughter
4. my fav. granddaughter
they will be worried about this even after you die.
no way around it.
they will each make their own decision based on
HOW YOU ACT
not what you say.
treat them with the equal love.
they may not ever understand until they have their own.
Definitely not wrong - I love that answer! They'll understand when they have kids someday!
I (and others) don't think its a good idea to point out characteristics of each child because children become aware that their brother is serious, so in order to differentiate from him they may over-compensate and become giant jokesters. Also, if they sense that you value any of those traits more than you value others they will feel you value one of the other children more.
Even if you don't let them think you value, say, honesty over seriousness, your children may, themselves, have prioritized those traits; so one child could wish he/she were valued for personality if he/she thinks that would be more important to have than, say, seriousness.
I think the answer has to be that until they have children themselves they will not be able to imagine how you can love three people as much as you love each of them and how it is just impossible to imagine loving any of them more than the others.
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