My brother and sister in law leave once feed?

They always do this, once they are feed or once they are given a gift they split, they don't come to socialize because they think they are better than everyone else. They get feed and get their gift and they are on their way. Who thinks this is very rude? Like christmas is spending time with the family once we open gifts they are gone. They treat the family like crap and our two children who is 2 and 8 months like crap saying that they whine too much and whining is for wimps

Answer:
on these occassions where you all get together, make it a pot luck dinner so they have to bring a dish...if they are thinking they are better than everyone else, they'll stay to make sure they get thier dish back...open the gifts before the meals so they have to stay and eat after they get thier gifts.

I hope they have kids someday if not already...all kids whine, especially at thier young age...that's so sad that even your brother acts this way
Leave them alone...if you really like to give them the gift, send it to them and let them know, you are saving them a trip...
hell yea its rude..but thats how some people are. they'll regret it, though when they need something
So don't invite them to your house anymore...maybe they are trying to get in and out so they have time to make it to other peoples houses to do the same...
Don't invite them over any more to eat. Mail them thier gifts.
Don't invite them over! You don't need their crap.Anyone who doesn't like kids and can't take the time to understand them should NOT be around them in the first place!
Don't invite them over anymore and then when they ask why you don't invite tell them the truth about your feelings.
yes, it's very rude. the only thing you could do would to be not to give them a gift or not to have the over to your house.
you got the problem; you know how they are and now you are asking us if we think it's rude. maybe your kids do whine too much. if you can't deal with it go to their house. they can't leave their own home.
this is rude .. i would not give them the chance to eat or get a gift. i would tell them there is nothing for them. i know that is cold hearted but by gosh they dont have to eat open and leave that is rude as hell, sounds to me like they only want the food and their gifts,and as far as the kids thier 2 and 8 months what the hell do they exspect from lil ones? do they have children yet? tell them to go to mcdonalds and open a happy meal and eat merry xmas bro, and sister in law. good luck.
I have to admit that my husband and I eat and leave but we also have to go to a million places on holidays(5 different homes so it turns into an all day thing for us)
so it's kinda crazy for us and our son.
However when we can stay we will. and We Do socialize in our short amount of time. We wish we could stay longer and at every ones home but we can't!

If your brother and sister in-law are not in a similar sitution as ours.
Then I do not believe thats right and you should talk to them about it
or just talk to your brother and then he can talk to his wife!

Good Luck and I hope everything turns out!

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