Please help me!?
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WOW! you sound like a great guy and you need to tell her how you feel and what you want to do and that you are by her side all the way! She must know this IMMEDIATELY! What ever she says, tell her you are still on her side. Let her know you won't let her down and know matter what you will be there. If it is a few weeks to a few years, you'll stop everything to be with her, let her know this!! She will have in the back of her mind what you said and when things are really confusing and she feels as if life is too hard to do this alone, she will remember what you said and will come to you. BUT YOU NEED TO BE STRONG because only ONE TIME you need to tell her all this stuff so she knows and there is NO REPEATING it because she already knows. and then YOU WAIT.. wait for her to make the move. Don't do anything but WAIT for her man!! You can do it, that's how you find out what true love is!
True love... When you love someone let 'em free, if they never come back, it was never meant to be!
Be patient!!
The first thing you have to do is talk to her and find out if she's really pregnant. If she is and both of you want to get back together, she needs your support.
Also, are you sure that she is pregnant by you?
Show her you love her, but respect her opinion. Go out of your way to do little things to show her you care. SHOWING does tons rather than just saying "I love you" all the time. Shower her with gifts (don't mean go buy cars... just flowers and chocolate, if she likes it.) Little things like that make women happy. The key is show her you love her and that you support her 100%.
Good Luck!
Firstly, I'm confused how you found out about the pregnancy on FeelBaby.com, but that's besides the point.
Additionally, it sounds like you need to talk to your girl. If she is in fact pregnant, this is her decision to make whether or not she wants to keep it. If she does decide to keep the baby, you will need to work with her on how you will share your duties. If she has the baby, you still have rights as a father. Talk to her, though. Us strangers can't do very much if you haven't even talked to her about it yet! Good luck!
I have never been in that situation, but I think the best thing to do is to let her know how you feel. She may or may not take you back, but at least you have said your peace. Let her know that you support her in her decisions and want to be there for her and the child. If she doesn't want you around, and you really love her, you will let her live her life. If you still want to be in the child's life if she is pregnant, make sure you offer to pay child support, as long as you don't deny that...I am pretty sure that technically she can't deny you visitation.
DO the right thing and support her through the pregnacy. Then, give the baby up for adoption. I am 35, make a good living, but supporting a child is tough at times. A Junior in High School does not have the resources unless your family is loaded. Not only will you do right by the "girl" you love, but you will also give the greatest gift in the world to a couple who cannot have children.
Hey Guy (sorry I dont know your name) First I want to give you congrats about the way you have taken your girls pregnancy, alot of guys especially your age run way from those situations, I am 22 so Im not that much older than you just a couple years ago I was a junior myself. My best advice to you is to talk to your girl, and tell her that you want to be there with her , that you want to work things out for the three of you. Another advice is for you guys not to make a stupid decision and have an abortion, I have been married for about a year, and my husband and I want to have a baby I got pregnant the fourth month after we got married, and lost it three months later, we have been trying to have another baby and it hasnt happened yet. I wish I was in your girls shoes now because being pregnant is a total blessing from the Lord, people that have babies or about to have babies dont want them, and people that have been trying like me wish we had that chance/opportunity. I know that you may be thinking that the both of you are too young, but you know (dont get me wrong) If you were both ready to go to bed, heve sex(make love) then both of you are responsible enough and smart enough to know that there are consequences for every action we make. Please talk to your girl I know shes probbaly scared as hell, I totally understand that, I dont know if you are a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ, but in his word it says that he never gives us a problem/situation that we cannot withstand or overcome. I really hope you guys work things out. God Bless You! I
Ex wife or ex girlfriend?
If you're the father, some advice, buddy, assume responsibility for your actions if you got her pregnant to begin with.
Then after that you both get yourselves sterilized.
You're too young for that sort of ____.
pregnancy can be very scary and stressful! You're all hormonal and you know that your body is going to change right along with the rest of your life! I know that she really needs you and just doesn't quite know how to show it or say it. Make up and be there to support her no matter how hard things get! I got pregnant when my now husband was a senior in high school and he stuck by my side even though I was constantly pushing him away! literally I would push him and say stuff like don't hug me don't touch me go jump off a cliff...horrible I know! But I really didn't mean them and in the end his persistence and dedication to me made everything work out okay! Good luck with everything, having a kid is not easy but it will bring you joy like no other!! There's NOTHING better in the world than when YOUR flesh and blood tells you "i love you" and gives you a great big hug! =]
Just talk to her. If the two of you find face to face converations about this difficult, use IM or emails. But you two need to talk to each other, not to us on yahoo.
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