My 17 year old daughter?
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she probley just wants some time alone she is growing up to be a young lady naw, she whats to tri and do things her self but on the other hand have you eva thought that ur daughter could be preg ask her nice is she is she is just probley worried and does nt wont to talk about it
shes a teen teens go threw mood changes
It comes down to this, she's almost 18 so she feels it necessary to distance herself from you. She feels she's an adult and u can't tell her what to do. Also by her having a boyfriend, the hormones plus crazy teen "bullshit" is making her feel like superwoman so to speak. The best way to handle this situation is to inform her on how hard the real world is, and that the only one who will be there for her forever is you. I had to realize all this when I turned 18 and moved out to what I thought was a perfect life. How quickly reality hit.
When kids start becoming someone they think there parents may not approve of or, when they become someone they themselves do not approve of, they don't want to talk anymore.
Something is going on...it may not be a big deal, but it might.
She's finally learning to fix her own problems. That and hormones. Let her know that you're always there whenever she wants to talk and then leave her alone.
Sit down and talk with her boyfriend hes problemly holding out on you. Also drugs could be the cause.
This is not a good sign, look into it careful, know who she's with and where shes going.Even if you have to do a little spying. Could be nothing keep that in mind.
It wasn't long ago that I was seventeen (I am 23). I would let her know that you care and that you will be there for her no matter what in what ever way she needs. Then I would give her some space, give the chance to come to you on her own terms. She may just be developing her independence and that can be hard for both her and you. I could also be that things are not what she would like with her boyfriend and is feeling stress from that. She sounds like a good girl, you and her will be ok.
Odds are she is pregnant. I was the same way with my mom (at 17)... me and her hung out a lot. Went shopping, to the movies, talked a lot… then I got pregnant. 17 and pregnant is a scary thing… I tried to distance myself from her so I wouldn’t have to talk about it. I am 19 now and things are back to normal with me and my mom… we go shopping, to the movies, talk a lot…
I think she may be pregnant what you need to do is just sit her down and let her know that if it's anything in the world she needs to talk to you about that she can rely on you. Let her know how far you both come and how you miss the girly conversation's you both used to share. Then just hold her in your arms for a good 2 minutes just a tight motherly hug ... and let her know whenever she is ready to speak you are ready to listen. Go to your room , leave the door open and sit on your bed she may come and sit next to you and talk and if not then right as she goes to bed tuck her in and she may tell yOU there. Regardless just let her know how it makes you feel
Maybe you can just tell how you fell. Say tell me whats wrong. I will be here will u need me. And wait to see if she come.
Until she is ready to talk there is nothing you can do. Your daughter is not a child and may be sorting through a problem she has in her own way, she has that right as a young adult. Pregnancy could be one reason or even problems in her relationship with her boyfriend you do not know about. Could be apprehension about life ahead as she is not a child and her 18th b-day is approaching quickly, she may just not know what she wants in life yet. Insure you treat her as a young woman on the matter not a child.
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