My Daughter Father was telling me that he was going to take my Daughter from me.?

Daugther father has really nonething to do with her he see her 5 to 6 times a year. He was saying that he was going to get a Dna test done and take her from me. He not on the birth cer. He say this when he is drunk. He only have working paper to be here and its up in 3 years. I think he will try and take it to court and get joint and one day up and left. His Hometown is Mexico. I have not talk to him or seem him in a couple of months. He don't know how to raise kids. This has been on my mind for 3 years I been hearing it. It stop because he not around at this time. He is also saying my Dad is doing stuff to her and he is not. I just worry that he will some how take my kid and I will never see her again. He will never go to court he has a warrent out for Dui before I even meet him. He only he to work. Its been a living nightmare for the last four years. I am glad for now he is not around to do anything. I raise her not him. I am there when she is sick. He not that sable either.

Answer:
Well, the courts will always keep a child with their mother unless they are a danger for found to be totally unfit to be a parent. Your Ex will never get custody of your child. Has he made child support payments? Probably not so he has no right to joint custody if he hasn't paid. If somehow he did get joint I would make sure to explain to the judge that your ex has DUIs and you do not feel that your child is safe without supervision. Make sure to add to the judge that you are afraid he will take your child to Mexico.
I really wouldn't worry about your ex. He's just trying to make you worry and trying to continue to hurt you. Ignore him, but definitely never let him take your child... not even down the street to get ice cream alone.
P.S. I would try to move out of your father's home if you're really concerned. Most courts don't play around when they hear a sexual abuse threat. Even if it's not true why give him anything to lie about?
Dont worry about it.
beat him to the chase. go to the police and tell them or at best go to a lawyer - pro bono if needed, and get help. this guy sounds like a dirt bag.
dont worry, beat him to it file child suport or sue for soul rights to the child
That sucs big time. First of all, this happened to me. You need to document. Date a paper and write down all your conerns and give examples up to now, including his threats. From now on, when he talk to you document it. Quote him on paper. Documentaion is legal and holds up in court. Also document examples of insability. As for threats with your dad... document abou tthat... if your daughter is happy when she sees him, does she aviod him. document to prove how she loves him and want to be with grandpa etc. Also, if he only sees her 5-6 times a year. He cannot take her. THat would be tramatic to thechild. That is what the courts look at, what is best for the child... However if he theatens to take her, then I would not leave her alone with him.. what if he takes off to Mexico with her? I would not leave them alone and report his threats to the police, get a record going on him.. Also, if he is drunk when he says these things, document that too, does he drink around your daughter... He is being a jerk, document, report threatst to the police and document abou ther reaction to your dad, so that he can't use that as grounds against you..
Get strong and fight if you have to.reverse the table and get him to support the child if she is his..once he finds out how hard it is to bring a child up...he will back away...GOOD LUCK!!
YOU DONT HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT HUN THEY WOULDNT LET HIM HAVE
You dont have any thing to worry about , and plus he would have to prove that you are an unfit mother in order for him to get custody, and if he has only seen or 5 or 6 times a year then there is no way he will get custody.
Don't worry about it your daughter father will give her back to you.
A judge has to decided that and they usually don't take kids from teh mother.
I would seek help from law enforcement. Try to record any correspondence and save anything questionable he says about 'taking' your daughter. These days they do not have any tolerence for any sort of child abduction.

Also, legally it sounds like this guy doesnt have a chance.
Sounds like he is a threat to you and your daughter. if he is not on the birth cer. than he CANNOT take her from you.
good luck and all the best

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