Do you and your spouse agree on the number of children you have or will have?
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For the most part. We agreed to three. I added that i kinda wanted 4, but three sounded good. I know have shown him that 4 doesn't mean 6, so he's ok with 4. We are now happily trying for that fourth child.
no we dont.
i want to have two but my hubby is satisfied with our daughter.
he wants to adopt.
but i am against it as i dont think i am ready to do that.
adopting is not a joke. you cant just decide to adopt a baby without being sure yourself.
the most pathetic part, after having had this talk, i had 2 miscarraiges.
now my hubby chides me that if we had adopted a year or two back we would have a grown up baby.
Yes of course.
yes we have agreed on having UP TO 2 children. i am 17 weeks pregnant now. if this child is a girl we are done (we both want a girl). if we have a boy we will try one more time.
we agree on the number but not on the timing exactly... but i'm 34 and he's 38... so i think we need to have a second child RIGHT AWAY if we are going to have 2... he thinks we should wait a couple of years. I'm going to let the doctor take over on this one though... what ever the doctor says is best i'm sure will be the best solution (because age IS a factor here).
No. He only wants 2...I want 2 or 3. If we have one boy and one girl, I probably wouldn't want to go for 3. But, if I have 2 children of the same sex, I would want to try at least once more to see if I could get the opposite sex. If I ended up with 3 of the same sex, that's fine...I don't want anymore than 3 children...but it would be nice to be able to experience the girly fun of having a daughter(s) and being able to experience all the boyish fun of having a son(s)!
nope, but my husband spoils me so i usually get what i want. if we can afford three then well have three, if not then only two.
I'm not married, but in a very serious relationship I had in the past that was heading towards marriage, we did not agree at all. He wanted tons of kids (and basically already had names picked out for all of them - and no, I didn't like the names either), and I only wanted 1 or 2.
I still do not see myself ever having a lot of children.
My husband already had a child when we met and he would have liked one or two more. However as I love children, I would have liked as many as possible! Maybe 6 kids and some foster children. However we did not let it affect our relationship.
We have two very special but difficult boys. One has autism and the other ODD. There is no way in hell we would go again.
So I guess the moral of the story is don't count your chickens before they've hatched!
We agree on at least 3-maybe 4.I am pregnant with #2 now.
Nope.
I want 2. Period. He wants atleast 3.
Not really, my husband wants more kids
But it is easy for him to say ,right??
Pretty much. Before we had kids, I said I wanted one. (I come from a family of 9 kids). Hubby wanted 5 (he has 1 sister and lots of cousins). We have 3 and I'm not having anymore. He teases me a lot that he could still go out and have a couple more. Jokingly, of course.
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