3 year old and father don't get along?

My husband and my son do not seem to get along. Everytime my husband is home my son is following him around and crying. My husband just does not seem to know what to do with him and I am getting worried about my son. I have tried to help my husband out by telling what to with my son but it seems that it is not working. If anyone has been through this I really need advice.

Answer:
You say every time your husband is home your son is following him around crying. What is your husband doing? Just wandering around the house? How asking him to sit down and spend some time with the boy which is what he obviously needs? Or just give him a hug? Is your husband just not into being a Dad or what? I have this picture of your husband wandering around the house ignoring your little boy and the boy just following him and crying. =(
don't worry they'll get along eventually...i had problems like this to
Maybe the child wants his father's hug and tender attention, just a suggestion.
Hi,
You just used these words " my husband and my son" instead " our son".Is your husband not the father of your son? If he is not biological father then there are other possible reasons which may go back to your husband's childhood.
If he is also real father, then management is different. Without this clarification, it will be hard to answer your question in detail.
Regards:
Mine went through the same thing. Though he is still only three things have just lately had a major turn around. My husband works in his shop a lot. He took our son in there a few times to let him "help". (Just moving wood/ sanding/ painting.. nothing dangerous) This has made an incredible difference now my son thinks my husband roped the moon. He even tells everyone he is "Daddy's Big Helper" where as not that long ago he didn't even want my husband hugging him. Ask your husband to involve your son in something. Most importantly make sure you aren't there. If you aren't around he is much more likely to bond with your husband :) Good luck
3 years old? Believe me it's not your son! Sounds like "your son" (by another man?) wants attention from your husband. If he was scared of him he would not be following him around. Experience: my grandchild has been spoiled from day ONE. His mama and daddy have always let him have his way(VERY little discipline). He walks around whining & throwing tantrums most of the time. NOW that they want to discipline they are having TOUGH time with him.He is four years old.

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