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you should treat him carefully
I would sit him down and have a very open and frank conversation w/ him about all of it. I would also make sure he knows to use protection, because the "horse is out of the barn" now, there's really nothing you can do to reign it in. Good luck and God Bless
Which part is the question? But I know first hand, that if you start having sex at a younge age you are not just going to stop.
I suggest talking about safe sex and STDs.
First i would go totally mad!
Then when i had calmed down i would sit him down and tell him what a big step he has just made in his life that he an never step back from, i would talk to him about safe sex and explain even if a girl tells him she is on the pill he most still use a condom!
I have a 13yr old and an 11yr old daughters and have been talking to both of them about sex and safe sex for years not in great detail i have explain as much that needs to be explain at each stage. My daughters both know that when they reach the time in their lives that they have their periods their going to the doctors and have the 5yr implant fitted!....
If i ask either of my girls what the best form of contraception is they both say. " say No" then i say."And if you don't want to say no??"....They both reply..."use a condom and the pill" My friends laugh at me when i tell them but at least i am trying to do something t prevent my kids having kids when their still kids themselves like i did!! I was17 and if i could have the same 3 kids but 10yrs later i would do it in a flash!!
I also have a 6yr old son and have started to answer his questions in the same way as i did with the girls...
Talk to your son!!
Good luck hunny x x x x xx
I agree with others here: preach safe sex. Also encourage him to stop. However, that might be unlikely. One thing that scared the crap out of me at that age was pictures of people with really bad STDs. I mean graphic ones. It made me think sex was way too risky. If you can, you should talk to the girlfriend, too, and maybe even with her mother. Perhaps between the two of you, you can keep your kids from going any further.
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