If your daughters boyfriend cheated on her, would you give him another chance?
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I'd let him back into my home so I could chew his scrawny little butt out!
If she's stupid enough. You wouldn't be made welcome though.
first of all, i would not let my daughter date a guy who drinks. Second of all, what do you mean by "cheating"? having sex? then no, I would not forgive you and if I found out you had sex with my daughter, you'd have another problem on your hands.
first of all i hope she never gives you a second chance, but if she dose then it's up to the parents to support her ,but i would never forget...if i was her mum..
I would let my daughter make her own decisions (especially if you are over 18) but it would take you a REALLY long time to earn my trust back, and if you are under 18 that could really put a damper on things. If you are truely serious, the best thing you can do is spend time w/ your girlfriend and her parents so they know you are serious. Good luck to you.
no offense to you, but no, i would not.
You'd have to do some real soul searching...you're the problem here, and what you don't realize is that : YOU did it before, you'll probably do it again.
I'd have a hard time forgiving you, or letting you into my house. What my daughter does is her business. If she's ignorant enough to let you back into her life in that capacity - then she has no one to blame but herself.
It's not up to me. It's up to my daughter. Whatever she decided, I'd support her.
You'd still be a cheatin' liar though! :)
Wheeeere's the shotgun Zeke??!
NO, you did it once, you will do it again
no i would not because the boyfriend has already broken our trust and we would be stupid to let him do that again and if our daughter would take him back i would be very angry because she would be allowing him to do it all over again. i think that once you cheat you will always cheat because you think you can find something better but what most people don't realize is they already have it in front of them.
Being drunk is no excuse. All you have to do is drink responsibly. And this is the key in my response. If you can't behave responsibly around booze and booze is always available the risks that you will do something wrong when drunk is fairly high.
Though there may be little doubt you regret what you did, some things can't be undone. (just think of people getting killed in a drunk driving accident)
If she was my daughter I would respect her choice, whatever she decided, but as to know if I would trust or respect you, you<d have to prove 'til the day I die that you are the right man.
And if you ever made my baby cry. You had better be ready for a world of torment. I would NEVER forgive you.
It would definately take some time but yes. If he treated her respectfully and did not make the same mistake again.
I would allow him in my home NOT because I forgave him but because I would rather my daughter and her boyfriend spend time together where I can keep and eye on them. Not welcoming him back would probably result in my daughter sneaking out and getting into trouble.
honestly, i believe your "mode" of cheating on your gf of THREE YEARS is a total cop out. but that's just my opinion. if you've committed yourself to a girl for three years and threw it all away and hurt her so much she broke up with you, i wouldn't get my hopes up that the parents would forgive you. this is their daughter you hurt and when you say "eventually i will be given a second chance"...that's pretty cocky of you. i wouldn't count your eggs and put them in the basket yet...and i wouldn't count on the parents or the girl fully forgiving and forgetting what you've done. but again, that's just my opinion. and as for my answer? nope...wouldn't forgive you if that was my daughter. once a cheater, always a cheater. you don't deserve the chance, and i hope she and her family aren't ignorant enough to give you another chance to hurt her again.
Well the question is how did you cheat on your girlfriend? Any cheating is terrible, and you know this, but what line did you cross? If I was the father, I really couldn't answer that unless I knew you personally. Everyone must forgive one another, and I am sure I would forgive you, however I don't know if I would allow you to date my daughter again. Don't blame drunkedness on your mistakes. I hate sounding like a father, but don't drink if you know you will make a mistake. That's it man, and I really hope it works out for you. You can make up for it if you never do it again! ha God Bless pal.
Being drank is no reason to cheat. There might be another reason to do that - a sexual one, irresponsibility, looking for you self only etc. Sincere apology will be helpful to see that your intention in the end is a good one and you might regret what you did but is it enough to trust that it will not happen again? No. You may learn tow things from here: 1. You can do it again, somehow it will have a acceptable end and you can't help you self 2. You regreted so much, you lost something that will really change you. Is it?
I dont have daughters but I woudl say " I would hold a grudge against u but I would have to forgive you if she did----I have to too since thats what it takes to see her happy. I would tell her though to be careful-------
so how do u know her parents know.?
Sorry, you make my baby cry, it's over. My sister's exboyfriend is afraid to come in my parent's house, and he didn't cheat on her. I wouldn't count of forgiveness.
it must hurt her so when my daughter hurts it hurts me and I will stop the pain if I can so no you would be old news
My first instinct is to say NOT IN THIS LIFETIME! But then I have to look at what my daughter really wants...and how old she may be at the time. If your a teen...hit the road. If your early 20's big maybe...with lots of reservations. If your 30 somethings...I don't know...it would at that point all have to do with my daughter.
You can't excuse that kind of betrayal on getting drunk. Even drunk you knew what you were doing...and you knew that it was wrong...and if you have no control when you drink you shouldn't be drinking...and if you did it once, what makes you think I won't think that you have done it 100 times before...and risking my daughter's life (Aids/Hiv) right along with your own. None of this is good and there are no easy answers...and bless the folks that can rise above all this and give you a second chance...DON'T BLOW IT.
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