What do you feel is the best mode to discipline a child?
Answers: clear consistant expectations and consequences... with a HUGE topping of praise.
Oh the debate you are going to spark beside this question...
CONSISTENTLY
by chitchat to them and not screaming your head sour at them or hitting them that is so wrong!
Depends on the child due to that adjectives children respond differently and it depends on what the child did.
With my son I take away TV time, toys, outdoor play, swimming, corner time, spanking or what ever is appropriate. But usually spanking is the merely thing that really works on him. Or I wouldn't do it at adjectives.
Funny pretty much I said the same entry as lola and yet you adjectives thumbed me down and her up. Weird.
it depends on what they did, how old the child is, and how the child react to the dicipline. The same type of dicipline might not work for some children. My neice can just be diciplined in words and she shows signs of remorse right away, while my best friend has a son of similar age who argues and yell at her and needs to be spanked to bring him to show remorse. It all depends on the child, i suppose.
punishment.
i have experienced, not as a mother
but have been an youth myself,a nd growing up
with young siblings, i have discovered that within my
family,punishment other works the best,
hitting children just builds up anger surrounded by them which can affect them later, and those looooong negotiations that parents like to offer and feel close to they should give are great but they shouldnt be given evry single time the child does somethign wrong, it basically makes them suggest "oh shut up, im tired of hearing that"
and they wont listen to you.
its major to be a parent, but more important to be a friend
for your child ya know?
tolerate them know that even if they did soemthign bad
they cant still come to you and you wont referee them.
but punishment is def what works.
hope i helped.
there's zilch wrong with spanking to me
prepare them right from wrong starting when they are just babies, and as they grow elder (like into toddler years), guide them, dont punish. then when they are bigger kids, they will know what not to do and will know the consequenses.
spanking a moment ago shows the child that violence is the answer to problems.
The best process to discipline a child to me is taking away privileges. It merely like when adults gain locked up: They don't have the privileged to be free, so most of them come out and do better as argue with to the beatings they used to obtain that just cause them anger.
I was spanked as a child and I am presently a grown well in the swing of things contributing member of society. Nothing wrong beside spanking a child as far as im concerned. For the record, in that is a difference between beating and spanking.
Discipline does not = punishment.
Discipline does = GUIDANCE
You can do your best to prevent your child from getting contained by trouble (ie childproof, baby gate, put stuff away)
You can become attached to your child by loving him and reading his cues (when he is tired, sick or hungry - he has a involve and isn't going to act his best. Read the cues and cart care of it)
Aren't we prepared to do things for people we "similar to?" For example if you are getting along w/ y our husband and he says, "honey can you bring me a soda." we would probably do it. If we are nutty at him we'd say, "you enjoy legs. get it yourself!"
You can swot up about child nouns. Why get upset next to a 16 month old who will not potty train? It's not developmentally appropriate. Have fair expectations.
Learn to use redirection and distraction. They are your friends. The child makes a mistake or is going for something (like the hot stove) after say, "Hot. Not for Johnny. Here let play with the blocks."
Give them a substitute for a behavior. (example: throwing. Take them outside, bestow lots of balls. when they start to throw inside, steal them outside. )
Try to predict what will happen. You're going to the store to shop - you know the kid will be hungry so you bring a snack. Or you enjoy to sit in church for an hour, so bring a calmness toy along, etc
Use logical and natural consequences. My 9 year weak was jump on my bed w/ dirty shoes. He had to strip my bed, keep watch on the sheets and remake the bed. He wasn't in trouble. I a moment ago expected him to fix it.
If the child need correction, be firm and consistent (but don't be so crazy in the order of consistency that you loose sight of compassion - know how to admit when you generate a mistake)
Always make up and hug afterwords.
Don't say aloud it if you aren't going to back it up. (do that an extra time and we Will leave....-then you better be liable to leave).
give the child choices. don't be a control freak.
If I dropped you within the middle of China - would you know how to act and behave? Your child is research how we expect them to behave through trial and error.
Discipline - guidance.
take away their favorite toys and keep hold of taking one away eveyrtime they do somehting bad . they willl realize if they want their toys, they will behave powerfully
What is the best way to punish a regulation breaker?
Execution is a little stiff for operating a vehicle near an expired license. And, forfeiture of $25 bond is a bit light for some one who sets a bomb that kill 2500 people.
Your press offers like peas in a pod scope as mine as is indicated by the above paragraph.
Help us out here will you. Did the child not drink his peas or did he set fire to the family dog? The punishment must fit the crime. Without any experience of what crime was committed I can't donate any suggestions for punishment.
I can tell you I enjoy four grown children. None are on drugs or locked up. They are healthy and joyful adults fully functional in our society. They adjectives received about matching discipline and part of that be a spanking when all else spoilt. Note, I said "Spanking", not "Beating". There is a difference. Additionally, as a parent you might actually spy that children are different. A child who is basically a loner will be relieved to be sent to there room alone. While a child who never uses the phone will find taking their cell phone away a kid. You have to hit them where on earth they live.
BTW, counting to three or repeated times out for a repeated offense isn’t getting it for me either. If your intention is to modify behavior the punishment must escalate near repetitions of the same offense a short time ago as it should escalate with the increased severity of the offense. For example we promise differently with a being who has nearby 15 armed robbery conviction. Like wise when someone escalates from a peeping tom to serial murdering rapist we tend to increase the level of punishment.
Just be firm and fair next to any punishment you dole out.
Love!
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